First off, Jesus. That one is non-negotiable. If you don't have a "relationship" with Jesus, you and me can't even begin to start to think about anything involving you and me. I'm a junior and senior high leader at my church, and I've been part of leadership for 5-6 years now. It's important for me to be with someone who feels the same way about things on a spiritual level.
Also, if I don't respond to you, don't take it personally. I probably just saw something in your profile that told me we wouldn't work.