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53 • Bethlehem, PA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 41–53
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Jul 29
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Not at all
- Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
- Leo, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Entertainment / Media
- Rather not say
- Has kids
- English (Fluently)
I'm convinced that the best things in life happen when you are open to possibilities. I am committed to making the best of any situation-- and am still optimistic enough to believe we are one good date from finding that person that makes life that much better.
A lot can happen over a cup of coffee.
I love good shows, bad movies, great TV and practically any sporting event.
I stopped drinking several years ago yet am very comfortable around any situational drinking. However, after a series of love interests that were heavy drinkers, let's just say I've made that mistake enough for this lifetime. If you still like getting drunk from time-to-time, I'm not your guy.
The current list of books that changed my life is topped by Anthony DeMello's Awareness. A very short read that had me rethinking everything.
2. A big bed
3. the touch of skin on skin
4. Something to write on, with
5. Iyengar Yoga
6. The Land: Trees, Lakes, Gardens and Open Fields
2. My coursework in Positive Psychology, the science of happiness and high performance
3. What needs to be done and how to do it.
4. Running, eating well, and how to take care of myself and others
When I'm on my own, I catch live music (all kinds other than country) and theatre whenever I can and enjoy live sporting events. Big Phillies fan and Very Big Sixers fan. I've had season tickets to both over the years (and still currently do for the Ironpigs) but now only go to a few games a year.
I love mountain biking, hiking, swimming in lakes, snow, campfires and fireflies.
... you can both give and receive a warm, loving presence in your life
...you can laugh at all this
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