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52 Aubrey, TX Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 43–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:24pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Has kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am optimistic, happy, fun, adventurous. I have fabulous, free spirited kids who have the courage to live their lives to the beat of their own drums and I love them for it. We are very close and talk almost daily.

I have an awesome job as a Designer and I enjoy it very much. I hope that you enjoy your career too.

Enjoy hole in the wall places better than fine dining...but the occasional Dragonfly is nice. A great book, a good movie. Someone who can tell a good story. The ability to be flexible and open to new ideas, old ideas.

Road trips on the spur of the moment... did you know that there is a historical marker in North Texas where it references a UFO/Spaceship that touched down? Or that Paradise Liquors has a back room with some wonderful wine?

Funniest Life Experience:
I lived in this great loft on a Downtown Square. (Bought a house in December 07) One night we heard what sounded like man breathing deeply in the rafters. Scared. So we grabbed my doggie, Whiski and ran down the stairs. Standing outside at 2am on the downtown square in a shirt and panties. Called the police. Three cop cars swarm the building and they take off through my loft and went over the whole roof. In a about 45 minutes (we are still in our shirt and panties, standing downtown) they come back and say "Miss, we did not hear or see anyone". I asked them if they would come up with us so we could get some clothes, we are going to a hotel. I know what we heard. So a cop comes upstairs with me and as we get to the top, I stop and I hear the man breathing again. I ask him if he hears it. He said yes and motioned for me to be quiet. He radios his buddy. Off they go, guns drawn, through the loft again. In a few minutes he says, Miss can you come here? I go into the little kitchen and he says chuckling, "Do you hear that?" I said yes. He said it is the wind blowing against the windows in the skylight. Haha. Ok so we were just a couple of hysterical women. But who would pass up a night filled with hot cops coming to our rescue? Smile, this is a true story. LOL

We all experience drama in our lives at one time or another. However, I am not in to perpetual drama, please leave it at the door and preferably not mine. Life is too short to get your panties in a wad....whoops, did I say that?? And yes I am. An eternal smart ass. But not in a mean way. And I can take as good as I give. The first thing people notice about me is my smile, my laugh and my sense of humor. Laughter is cleansing to the soul.

Love the Mavs and the Stars!! A ranger game is always fun! Camping, boating, fishing, pool, poker, dancing, browsing a book store, yoga, massages and bubble baths. Guess I just love life and seeing and doing and learning.

Absolutely love the Big City, but would also like to one day have a cabin on a river again. Maybe the Columbia in Oregon or the Illinois in Oklahoma. They are both beautiful, but the Columbia is phenomenal.

I am Optimistic, Passionate, and Mischievous
What I’m doing with my life
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Living it...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a Mommie even though my kids are grown. We have become great friends. Being a good friend, taking the time to listen. Being open to new ideas.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, my smile and my laughter and you know!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love memoirs, anything Irish, Atlas Shrugged, The Fountainhead, World War II non fiction, Herman Wouk, Alas Babylon, Shakespeare (but prefer that read or quoted to me...hmmmm)
....I guess I could go on awhile.

Movies from all genre's. Indie are probably my favorite. Historical, period pieces. Comedy. Anything with Adam Sandler to Helena Bonham Carter. The Razor's Edge, Breaker Morant, Margaret's Museum, Niagra Niagra,The Godfather Trilogy, Billy Madison, standard fair Bourne Trilogy, Matrix.....I just saw Slumdog Millionaire and it was a wonderful film. I met a friend on this site that introduced me to Firefly and Serenity...I absolutely LOVE them. I could watch them over and over.

Music is a must. I enjoy everything from classical and jazz to rock, blues, some country and even a few select rap songs. Love live music venues. Music truly touches your soul in so many ways...

Seafood, Sushi, Ethiopian, Chinese, Thai, Indian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Kids.
My friends and family.
My puppy.
Passion....and more passion.
New experiences.
The power of touch.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to get through the looking glass, over the bridge and through the woods while following the yellow brick these cute little ruby shoes. How many licks does it take to get to the center of a tootsie roll tootsie pop. And whether or not my life is just a dream, who's dream is it and are they enjoying it?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With friends somehow, somewhere.
You should message me if
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Anything I said made you smile...