Whisperer85
30 Gent, Belgium
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My self-summary
"broaden horizons and challenge yourself, try anything at least once and recognize anyone as a potential friend"

I am many things, for one a man. I am a Magic: the gathering judge that plays rugby. I am a wannabe writer that loves to cook. I am a procrastinator and a dreamer. I am the quintessential yes-man looking for people to ask and dare me.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I am starting to shape what my life will be like. I have a nice job and bought a house but would be willing to throw everything overboard and start something else.
I’m really good at
Making people happy by helping them achieve what they thought to be impossible.
The first things people usually notice about me
Loud and funny, big and strong. I am protective of those around me. It usually takes people quite a bit of time to see beyond my posture...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My tastes are wayyy too broad to put into words. There is barely anything I would not like or at least want to try.

That means classical to punk, Titanic to Akira, Once upon a time to Creepies, sushi to pizza.
The six things I could never do without
Air, seems quite important to me. Windy silty salty cool air is the best, but I will settle for calmer drier gusts as well.
Physical contact, I am a tactile person, I love giving hugs and tend to touch people while talking to them.
Freedom, I like to be able to do what I want, go with the flow and live in a spur of the moment.
My computer, for both social and antisocial needs.
Writing material, I just hate getting a good idea and not being able to jot it down.
My cat, just because she jumped onto my lap as I am typing this and I have no inspiration.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Too many different things. I think about worst case scenario's all the time and how to make sure they never happen. I think about sex fairly often, because my girlfriend loves planting little seeds of erotic thoughts in my brain, like open relationships... I think about the future in the broad sense, about ecology, about love, about dreams. I think about thinking about thinking about thinking...
On a typical Friday night I am
Trying to have fun, by going to my game store to play some games or do the same at home. I am no longer a crazy party guy but I won't say no to a babe with a bottle of tequila , some limes and the promise of salt on her body. Not that stuff like that ever happens to me, but a man can dream. Lately Friday night is when you would find me on the rugby field.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am usually a lot less certain about myself than what I am showing. I have a mask that works really well in hiding my insecurities.
You should message me if
... if you want to try something new, if you're bored or need someone to talk to, if you want to be the first woman to actually send me the first e-mail instead of conforming with our society and waiting to be swept off your feet.
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