I can be somewhat of an oxymoron in personality, but can't anybody really? I try to be rather honest with myself, and if I like you enough, I'll share that honesty with you too. As such, I can seem oddly blunt at times, or somewhat closed off, dependent upon my mood and who I am talking to. My personality, even within interactions with people, is ever multifaceted, and friends have complained that they find new aspects to me when encountering me in a different mood or group of people.
I will tell any who are bothering to read this here: If you ask me a question here, I will be as honest as I am capable. Be that honesty gentle, brash, blunt, kind, or brief in words... even if my answer is simply that I cannot, will not, or do not desire to, divulge the answer. If we have met, or have been chatting for a while, I am likely to tell you if you have intrigued me, or if I am attracted, and that I would like to see you again. If the opinion is not mutual, I will not be offended, and only ask that you share that honesty with me. Even if it is the let down of "just be friends." I would rather have a new friend to see on occasion, than tapered silence.
*edit as of March '12* Wow this section makes me sound kinda snooty