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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–46
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 4
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Two-year college
Has kids
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am open minded, fun, friendly, moderate to high energy person who genuinely enjoys being silly and making the most of my life.

I am a professional working for a great company that I have been with for over 15years.
I enjoy photography, carpentry, archery, video games, board games, cartoons and anime, movies, hiking, (Love being in the woods), sewing, indoor rock climbing, and participating in Renaissance fairs. Life's to short to be serous all the time.
I am a kid a heart and almost as playful, who knows how to respect others and take care of responsibilities.

I am married to the amazing (auntmonkey) as she is my best friend, submissive, and love of my life. We regularly challenge each other to grow in new and spectacular ways. This requires an extreme amount of communication and vulnerability, that is always a work in progress, that we both work hard at.

This has lead us to our latest adventure.
We have decided to experiment in opening up our marriage. This is ethical non-monogamy.
We regularly talk and share with each other. No secrets.

I, like my wife, am on here as a way to meet other interesting people who "like us" may not fit in with what society deems normal. It would be incredible to meet new and wonderful people. Maybe make new friends maybe make something more then just friends with someone. Life is an adventure after all.

If it wasn't obvious. Kink, Poly friendly!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Happily being an empty nester. Woot! The only benefit to having a child young.
For the first time in nearly 3 years I am working a shift meant for people who enjoy spending time out in the light of day. (Day shift)
With this newly recovered time I work to regularly go to the gym, work on hobbies, see friends, attempt to make new friends, shoot photos.

Sleep is my dreaded enemy. It like to remind me that I can not do all the things all the time without a little recharging of the batteries.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a good friend and husband.
Talking if the conversation is right.
Giving hugs and kisses so I have been told.

Generally being silly and making fun of myself.
It really is an easy task for me. So I just laugh about it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a happy person with a smile on my face and maybe an infectious laugh. "So no Resting bitch face here. ;)"
People tend to think I am younger then I am.
Oh sitting still... it's not my forte. I like doing things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: No real favorite here. Though to be fair, sitting and reading can put me to sleep, So I listen to a lot of audio books.

Movies: I grew up on Movies and TV. So I do not have any true favorites. Though I generally enjoy most except Horror. I have a vivid imagination and do not need those sights floating around in my head.

Food: I have a weakness for good chocolate, red wine and seafood, spicy Thai food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Wife (auntmonkey)
Physical Touch
My camera
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend to much time wondering why people treat others as poorly as some do. Why so many people are as closed minded or negative as some are.

How a persons age (young or old) can create so many preconceived notions that matter to so many without first understanding their experiences.

My continual growth and being a better person to myself and those around me.

I also spend a decent amount of time thinking about how I can improve on the things I enjoy: Shooting archery, photography, maybe coming up with some new idea of something to build, or a new adventure to go on.

Or how I can be so oblivious at times.

Oh look...Squirrel!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Newly reacquired Friday nights. What to do. What to do.
I am open to idea.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I started going gray at 17.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You get that communication is important in all that you do.
You understand how understanding the 5 love languages can help you to communicate with the people you care about. (IMPORTANT)
I seem like someone who you might find interesting and maybe would like to get to know.
You have ideas for adventures that you would like to share with someone new.
Or maybe you enjoy fun bantering with someone who can be a bit random and entertaining.