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39 Renton, WA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–43
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Has a kid
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am open minded, fun, friendly, moderate to high energy person who genuinely enjoys being silly and making the most of my life.

I have had to learn how to function with ADHD without meds growing up as a kid. As an adult I have found that being on the meds had disadvantages that I felt out weighed the benefits. Though some close to me might disagree. So as much as I can be very steady and laid back, I can also be impatient and random. Though I have learned skills that help. I am still generally a fun person I think.

I am a professional working for a great company.
I enjoy photography, wood working, archery, video games, board games, cartoons and anime, hiking, sewing, indoor rock climbing, and participating in Renaissance fairs. It's been a fun hobby. Life's to short to be serous all the time.
Just this last spring I took some tango lessons and plan on doing so again. It was challenging and fun. Even if I was not very good at it.

A bit more about me. I want to be clear!
I have been with my wonderful wife (auntmonkey) for 16 years as she is my best friend and the woman I want to spend my life with. "We regularly challenge each other to grow in new and spectacular ways." This has lead us to a D/s dynamic in our relationship that has me constantly evolving and growing in who I am as a person and as her partner in life. This has required an extreme amount of communication and vulnerability. Enough so, that I work very hard at clear communication with everyone in my life. So, I can honestly say that I would not be who I am without her, and I am happy with who I am.

So, if you are wondering why I am here. It is because it is a way to meet other interesting people that I might not otherwise meet. Maybe make a friend along the way, maybe make something more then just friends (open to the idea), learning something new, find activity partners.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work a swing shift. So I am usually working on something before work or going to the gym. Well trying to.
after work (10pm) I am filling my time with whatever that is not to loud, so I do not wake people. All of this (aside from work is subject to change as opportunities arise.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a good friend and husband.
Talking if the conversation is right.
Giving hugs and kisses so I have been told.

Generally being silly and making a bit of an ass out of myself.
It really is an easy task for me! So I just laugh about it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a perpetual smile on my face. I really am a happy person.
So no Resting bitch face here. ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This is more for conversation.
However I have a weakness for good chocolate, red wine and seafood.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Love (My Wife)
Physical Touch
My camera
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about how much I have grown over the years and what I need to continue to work on, as I want to be the best person I can be. I also spend a decent amount of time thinking about how I can improve on the things I enjoy: Shooting archery, photography, maybe coming up with some new idea of something to build, or to just how to be more aware when I interact with people/reading body language.
I can be a bit oblivious at times.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am working those nights. Hey it pays the bills! Though after work I am open to options.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I started going gray at 17.
You should message me if
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You get that communication is important in all that you do.
I seem like someone who you might find interesting and maybe would like to get to know.
You have morning or late night adventures that you would like to share with someone new.
Or maybe you enjoy bantering with someone fun.

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