Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am open minded, fun, friendly, moderate to high energy person who
genuinely enjoys being silly and making the most of my life.
I am a professional working for a great company that I have been
with for over 15years.
I enjoy photography, carpentry, archery, video games, board games,
cartoons and anime, movies, hiking, (Love being in the woods),
sewing, indoor rock climbing, and participating in Renaissance
fairs. Life's to short to be serous all the time.
I am a kid a heart and almost a playful, who knows how to respect
others and take care of responsibilities.
Dancing is a weakness of mine so last spring I took some tango
lessons and plan on doing so again. It was challenging and fun.
Even if I was not very good at it.
I am married to the amazing (auntmonkey) as she is my best friend,
submissive, and love of my life. We regularly challenge each other
to grow in new and spectacular ways. This requires an extreme
amount of communication and vulnerability, that is always a work in
progress, that we both work hard at.
This has lead us to our latest adventure.
We have decided to experiment in opening up our marriage. This is
We regularly talk and share with each other. No secrets.
I, like my wife, am on here as a way to meet other interesting
people who "like us" may not fit in with what society deems normal.
It would be incredible to meet new and wonderful people. Maybe make
new friends maybe make something more then just friends with
someone. Life is an adventure after all.
If it wasn't obvious. Kink, Poly friendly!
I have been seeing a lovely lady for a few months now and she has
added greatly to my life.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Happily being an empty nester. Woot! The only benefit to having a
For the first time in nearly 3 years I am working a shift meant for
people who enjoy spending time out in the light of day. (Day
With this newly recovered time I work to regularly go to the gym,
work on hobbies, see friends, attempt to make new friends, shoot
Sleep is my dreaded enemy. It like to remind me that I can not do
all the things all the time without a little recharging of the
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a good friend and husband.
Talking if the conversation is right.
Giving hugs and kisses so I have been told.
Generally being silly and making fun of myself.
It really is an easy task for me. So I just laugh about it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a happy person with a smile on my face and maybe an infectious
laugh. "So no Resting bitch face here. ;)"
People tend to think I am younger then I am.
Oh sitting still... it's not my forte. I like doing things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: No real favorite here. Though to be fair, sitting and
reading can put me to sleep, So I listen to a lot of audio
Movies: I grew up on Movies and TV. So I do not have any true
favorites. Though I generally enjoy most except Horror. I have a
vivid imagination and do not need those sights floating around in
Food: I have a weakness for good chocolate, red wine and seafood,
spicy Thai food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Wife (auntmonkey)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend to much time wondering why people treat others as poorly as
some do. Why so many people are as closed minded or negative as
How a persons age (young or old) can create so many preconceived
notions that matter to so many without first understanding their
My continual growth and being a better person to myself and those
I also spend a decent amount of time thinking about how I can
improve on the things I enjoy: Shooting archery, photography, maybe
coming up with some new idea of something to build, or a new
adventure to go on.
Or how I can be so oblivious at times.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Newly reacquired Friday nights. What to do. What to do.
I am open to idea.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I started going gray at 17.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You get that communication is important in all that you do.
You understand how understanding the 5 love languages can help you
to communicate with the people you care about. (IMPORTANT)
I seem like someone who you might find interesting and maybe would
like to get to know.
You have ideas for adventures that you would like to share with
Or maybe you enjoy fun bantering with someone who can be a bit
random and entertaining.
Who are you looking for?
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