"Nothing is my last word on anything." This quote came to mind as I
attempted to begin describing something so complex as me and you
and how we should fit together. This is my first attempt at online
dating, and this unabashed self promotion seems a little tacky to
me. But I see the necessity for some explanation, so I will stick
to what I am more certain of. I know that I have a witty and sharp
personality. I am tall blue-eyed with high cheek bones, and I smile
a lot. I am extremely talented at listening not because I am good
at acting, but because I love when people open up and show their
deeper thoughts/feelings. In no particular order, my three greatest
pleasures are: learning, building relationships through great
conversation, and sex. I want us to laugh, live, and grow
In regards to what I'm looking for, I am very open; I'm not
expecting someone with very specific attributes, rather I want
someone with whom we can be ourselves. Ive found things that I may
initially think are an impasse to a relationship end up being one
of the more interesting aspects of it. That said I do need someone
that has similar aims, I want us to build each other up through
consistent and common love and support, and not to be a typical
Internet male, but as I stated already sex is a specific priority
of mine. I don't want to rush things by saying that, just fair
warning that I am honest and loyal but also highly sexual within
What I’m doing with my life
If my friend is asking: I'm just trying to enjoy, thrive, and
mainly have as many sublime experiences as possible, preferebly
sharing many of those with you.
If my dad or your parents are asking: I am a teachers assistant
(but I teach the whole class) through the UW. I'm in school to get
my masters in education and teach at a college level.
I’m really good at
Reading others, making people feel comfortable being themselves,
Conversation, sex, kissing, changing my point of view quickly when
I'm wrong, running, soccer, fitting in to any crowd...well ok
almost any crowd...., i am fun to drink and reminisce with,
thinking abstractly, and most games.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably tall. Unless maybe if I were on fire or something, then
I'd have to assume they would notice the fire and then notice that
it was a tall person on fire...probably
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
All Steinbeck, Alan watts, I cover to cover Nat geo every month and
am not ashamed to say so, and of course like anyone I get about
half my trustworthy news from the occasional daily show episode.
Music is harder: I could list a lot of bands here and maybe I
should, but I would be unsatisfied with any list. I've phased
through so many musical tastes and am always liking new things. My
favorite song for over a year has been skinny love and lately I
can't stop listening to alt-j and the lumineers.
The six things I could never do without
Food, water, breathable air, shelter, gravity, culture.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How much time do you have?
I think constantly, about many things most of them are abstract
thoughts about universals. Favorite topics of thought include: the
effects of technology on our current experience of life,
comparisons between modern and ancient times, anything prehistoric
and most things historic, love, music lyrics, plans, our duty as
humans, life, death, how I may be a better person, American
culture, fantasy, and sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Why? Are you free?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I wonder what the craziest actual over share anyone has ever put
here is. I'd like to think someone was convicted of a crime they'd
long been suspected for by admitting to it on a dating profile.
You should message me if
If you read this far, you definitely should message me. I'll buy
you a drink just for having read the whole thing. :)