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42 F New Orleans, LA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:15pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Turkish (Poorly), French (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
NOTE: I work 14 days a month offshore where the internet ranges from crappy to non-existent, so if you don't get a response from me that is probably why.

I am looking for friendships that might turn into something more. I am not looking for a hookup or one night stand. They take way to much energy and are not very enjoyable. I am currently in a committed open relationship, but looking for potential friends with benefits.


- Inspiration (I want to inspire you to be the best you can be)
- Appreciation
- Understanding (men are different from women in so many wonderful ways)
- Intellectual stimulation
- Great adventures


-I need a man who accepts me and expresses appreciation for all that I bring to his life.
-A man who knows you can be smart but not intelligent.
-A man who enjoys lots of physical activity, hopefully Olympic Weightlifting.
-A man who enjoys erotica in general and is not afraid of a little teeth, nails.
-A man who appreciates the irony of the following quote: "Life in Lubbock, Texas, taught me two things: One is that God loves you and you're going to burn in hell. The other is that sex is the most awful, filthy thing on earth and you should save it for someone you love." ~Butch Hancock

A WORD ABOUT EXERCISE: I am crazy about Crossfit. I am working out 1 to 3 days a week or as time allows, so if being physically fit isn't something you find fun we are not going to be a match.

If you are a vegetarian we are not going to be a match. Really, not a match, I am very much a carnivore!
What I’m doing with my life
Figuring out how to be the best coach and inspirational friend I can be and working on making sure my friends say, "When she walks in, she lights up the room!" Oh and in between doing that I play around with statistics and risk assessment/management.
I’m really good at
The first things people usually notice about me
Usually it is my laugh, and my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Almost any sci-fi, Mercedes Lackey, Laurell Hamilton, Terry Goodkind, Marion Zimmer Bradley, Heinlein and W.E.B. Griffin.

The self help books include: Way of the Peaceful Warrior way back in the 80's, Loving What Is, and Dark Side of the Light Chasers, Five Languages of Love

Book Series: Darkover, Anita Blake, Brotherhood of War, Valdemar, Dragonriders of Pern, Legion of the Damned and Outland

Movies: Cutting Edge, Usual Suspects, Hatari, Hellfighters, Maltese Falcon, Shawshank Redemption, Moulin Rouge, The Truth about Cats and Dogs, The Lake House, Elizabeth, Golden Child, Rush Hour 2. I could go on, there are so many movies I like!

TV Shows: Firefly, Stargate, Farscape, Eureka, The Unit, 24, Angel, Buffy

Music: Just about any music, music is background noise for me and has never been hugely important, but I do miss it when it isn't around.

Food: Just about anything, although sushi done well, or a good steak is always a plus for me. I am allergic to the protein in dairy so eating out is always a challenge. But the up side of that is I am a fabulous cook!
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order:

1. My iPad
2. My Friends
3. My Family(birth and otherwise)
4. My Home
5. My Cellphone
6. Books, any books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How much trouble I can get into now that I am back in the City of Sin!
On a typical Friday night I am
Working on my property on the bayou. It is the perfect (well except spending the weekend in the Quarter) getaway from the city.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Everything I have already shared....
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 38–57
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You think my profile is direct, honest and interesting. And you are OK with open relationships.