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I am looking for a long term partnership and relationship that
provides me with a sense of family and shared interests. I need a
cheerleader for those times I doubt myself. I want someone who
works as hard as I do, but also wants to play as hard as I do, in
many of the same ways I like to play. Variety is the spice of
I am currently in an open relationship. I am looking for someone
who is OK with open relationships, but wants a primary
If we are less than a 90% match, we are not going to be a match. If
you think we aren't a match because you haven't answered any
questions, please, answer some questions and see what comes of
WHAT I PROVIDE:
- Inspiration (I want to inspire you to be the best you can
- Understanding (men are different from women in so many wonderful
- Intellectual stimulation
- Shelter from the Corporate storms
- A play partner
- A fellow handyman
- A partner for the great adventures to come
WHAT I NEED A MAN:
- It takes a long time for me to open my heart, so bring your
patience. My current boyfriend waited 3 years for me to recognize I
was in a relationship with him. Granted, we are in an open
- Who makes me feel safe in your presence, no matter what the
- Who enjoys profound conversations about life the universe and
everything, and yes since I am older than 42 I do actually have the
answer, just not all the questions yet!
- Who thinks standing shoulder to shoulder with your partner to
face the all the world has to offer sounds like heaven.
- Who loves spending time with your partner just touching and
stroking in a non sexual way. For instance at dinner, touch and
conversation are equally important topics.
- Who thinks that building your own hot tub would be a great way to
spend the weekend.
- Who routinely challenges all beliefs, including your own.
- Who has travelled out of the country and maybe even lived
- Whose spiritual side is well developed, but doesn't run your
- Who is patient and enjoys the moments between.
-A man who is climbing or has climbed the corporate ladder, and
still finds it challenging.
-A man who enjoys physical activity, hopefully Olympic
-A man who enjoys erotica in general and is not afraid of a little
-A man who appreciates the irony of the following quote: "Life in
Lubbock, Texas, taught me two things: One is that God loves you and
you're going to burn in hell. The other is that sex is the most
awful, filthy thing on earth and you should save it for someone you
love." ~Butch Hancock
What I’m doing with my life
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Figuring out how to be the best person and inspirational friend I
can be and working on making sure my friends say, "When she walks
in, she lights up the room!" I also play around with home
renovations and how to be a better engineer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Usually it is my laugh, and my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Almost any sci-fi
, Mercedes Lackey
, Deborah Geary
, Kevin Hearne
, Terry Goodkind
, Marion Zimmer
and W.E.B. Griffin
The self help books include: Way of the Peaceful
way back in the 80's, Loving What Is
, and Dark
Side of the Light Chasers
, Five Languages of
Book Series: Darkover
, Anita Blake
, Brotherhood of War
, Dragonriders of Pern
, Maltese Falcon
, Moulin Rouge
, The Truth about
Cats and Dogs
, The Lake House
, Golden Child
Rush Hour 2
could go on, there are so many movies I like!
TV Shows: Firefly
, The Unit
Music: Just about any music, music is background noise for me and
has never been hugely important, but I do miss it when it isn't
Food: Just about anything, although sushi
done well, or a good steak
is always a plus for
me. I am allergic to the protein in dairy so eating out is always a
challenge. But the up side is I love cooking!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
1. My iPad
2. My Friends
3. My Family(birth and otherwise)
4. My Home
5. My Cellphone
6. Books, any books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can make my house into my own unique home.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on my property on the bayou. It is the perfect getaway from
the city. Spending the night in the Quarter is a wonderful change
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Everything I have already shared....
You should message me if
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You think my profile is direct, honest and interesting. And you are
OK with open relationships.
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