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43 F Lacombe, LA

I’m looking for

  • Straight men only
  • Ages 32–57
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:15am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Turkish (Poorly), French (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am looking for friendships that turn into something more. I am looking for a long term relationship that provides me with as much as I provide to the relationship.

I am currently in a committed open relationship. His wife comes first for him, and I would like to find someone who puts me first, but isn't threatened by what we have.


- Inspiration (I want to inspire you to be the best you can be)
- Appreciation
- Understanding (men are different from women in so many wonderful ways)
- Intellectual stimulation
- Great adventures


-I need a man who accepts me and expresses appreciation for all that I bring to his life.
-A man who knows you can be smart but not intelligent.
-A man who makes me feel safe.
-A man who enjoys lots of physical activity, hopefully Olympic Weightlifting.
-A man who enjoys erotica in general and is not afraid of a little teeth, nails.
-A man who appreciates the irony of the following quote: "Life in Lubbock, Texas, taught me two things: One is that God loves you and you're going to burn in hell. The other is that sex is the most awful, filthy thing on earth and you should save it for someone you love." ~Butch Hancock

If you are a vegetarian we are not going to be a match. Really, not a match, I am very much a carnivore!

If you are not local I am not going to respond to a message. I am not currently looking for anything long distance.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Figuring out how to be the best person and inspirational friend I can be and working on making sure my friends say, "When she walks in, she lights up the room!" I also play around with home renovations and how to be a better engineer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Usually it is my laugh, and my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Almost any sci-fi, Mercedes Lackey, Laurell Hamilton, Deborah Geary, Kevin Hearne, Terry Goodkind, Marion Zimmer Bradley, Heinlein and W.E.B. Griffin.

The self help books include: Way of the Peaceful Warrior way back in the 80's, Loving What Is, and Dark Side of the Light Chasers, Five Languages of Love

Book Series: Darkover, Anita Blake, Brotherhood of War, Valdemar, Dragonriders of Pern, Legion of the Damned and Outlander

Movies: Cutting Edge, Usual Suspects, Hatari, Hellfighters, Maltese Falcon, Shawshank Redemption, Moulin Rouge, The Truth about Cats and Dogs, The Lake House, Elizabeth, Golden Child, Rush Hour 2. I could go on, there are so many movies I like!

TV Shows: Firefly, Stargate, Farscape, Eureka, The Unit, 24, Angel, Buffy

Music: Just about any music, music is background noise for me and has never been hugely important, but I do miss it when it isn't around.

Food: Just about anything, although sushi done well, or a good steak is always a plus for me. I am allergic to the protein in dairy so eating out is always a challenge. But the up side is I love cooking!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:

1. My iPad
2. My Friends
3. My Family(birth and otherwise)
4. My Home
5. My Cellphone
6. Books, any books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How much trouble I can get into now that I am back in the City of Sin!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on my property on the bayou. It is the perfect (well except spending the weekend in the Quarter) getaway from the city.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Everything I have already shared....
You should message me if
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You think my profile is direct, honest and interesting. And you are OK with open relationships.