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44 Lacombe, LA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 37–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 16
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Turkish (Poorly), French (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am looking for a long term partnership and relationship that provides me with a sense of family and shared interests. I need a cheerleader for those times I doubt myself. I want someone who works as hard as I do, but also wants to play as hard as I do, in many of the same ways I like to play. Variety is the spice of life.

I am currently in an open relationship. I am looking for someone who is OK with open relationships, but wants a primary partner.

If we are less than a 90% match, we are not going to be a match. If you think we aren't a match because you haven't answered any questions, please, answer some questions and see what comes of it!


- Inspiration (I want to inspire you to be the best you can be)
- Appreciation
- Understanding (men are different from women in so many wonderful ways)
- Intellectual stimulation
- Shelter from the Corporate storms
- A play partner
- A fellow handyman
- A partner for the great adventures to come

- It takes a long time for me to open my heart, so bring your patience. My current boyfriend waited 3 years for me to recognize I was in a relationship with him. Granted, we are in an open relationship.
- Who makes me feel safe in your presence, no matter what the circumstance.
- Who enjoys profound conversations about life the universe and everything, and yes since I am older than 42 I do actually have the answer, just not all the questions yet!
- Who thinks standing shoulder to shoulder with your partner to face the all the world has to offer sounds like heaven.
- Who loves spending time with your partner just touching and stroking in a non sexual way. For instance at dinner, touch and conversation are equally important topics.
- Who thinks that building your own hot tub would be a great way to spend the weekend.
- Who routinely challenges all beliefs, including your own.
- Who has travelled out of the country and maybe even lived overseas.
- Whose spiritual side is well developed, but doesn't run your life.
- Who is patient and enjoys the moments between.
-A man who is climbing or has climbed the corporate ladder, and still finds it challenging.
-A man who enjoys physical activity, hopefully Olympic Weightlifting.
-A man who enjoys erotica in general and is not afraid of a little teeth, nails.
-A man who appreciates the irony of the following quote: "Life in Lubbock, Texas, taught me two things: One is that God loves you and you're going to burn in hell. The other is that sex is the most awful, filthy thing on earth and you should save it for someone you love." ~Butch Hancock
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Figuring out how to be the best person and inspirational friend I can be and working on making sure my friends say, "When she walks in, she lights up the room!" I also play around with home renovations and how to be a better engineer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Usually it is my laugh, and my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Almost any sci-fi, Mercedes Lackey, Laurell Hamilton, Deborah Geary, Kevin Hearne, Terry Goodkind, Marion Zimmer Bradley, Heinlein and W.E.B. Griffin.

The self help books include: Way of the Peaceful Warrior way back in the 80's, Loving What Is, and Dark Side of the Light Chasers, Five Languages of Love

Book Series: Darkover, Anita Blake, Brotherhood of War, Valdemar, Dragonriders of Pern, Legion of the Damned and Outlander

Movies: Cutting Edge, Usual Suspects, Hatari, Hellfighters, Maltese Falcon, Shawshank Redemption, Moulin Rouge, The Truth about Cats and Dogs, The Lake House, Elizabeth, Golden Child, Rush Hour 2. I could go on, there are so many movies I like!

TV Shows: Firefly, Stargate, Farscape, Eureka, The Unit, 24, Angel, Buffy

Music: Just about any music, music is background noise for me and has never been hugely important, but I do miss it when it isn't around.

Food: Just about anything, although sushi done well, or a good steak is always a plus for me. I am allergic to the protein in dairy so eating out is always a challenge. But the up side is I love cooking!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:

1. My iPad
2. My Friends
3. My Family(birth and otherwise)
4. My Home
5. My Cellphone
6. Books, any books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can make my house into my own unique home.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on my property on the bayou. It is the perfect getaway from the city. Spending the night in the Quarter is a wonderful change too!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Everything I have already shared....
You should message me if
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You think my profile is direct, honest and interesting. And you are OK with open relationships.