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30 San Diego, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
May 4
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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So I realize as I write this just how contradictory a lot of aspects of my personality and activities are. I guess that's the price I pay for having fairly diverse interests.

I played lacrosse in college, play in a couple softball and football leagues now, love watching football and hockey, and am a pretty regular gym attendee. But I'm also a nerd who loves Doctor Who, all things Joss Whedon, and owns altogether too many video games and books. I love going to live music, comedy, sporting events, movies, and going out with friends, but I'm also happy spending a night sitting on the couch with a good book, playing a random board game, or just relaxing and watching TV. I love to cook, especially for other people, but also really like going out and discovering new restaurants.

My job keeps me pretty tied up, but while it monopolizes more of my time than I like, I don't think it's a defining characteristic, it's just something I do. I've got a good sense of humor and am told I'm a funny guy. I do have a bit of a cynical and sarcastic streak, but I try to keep it under control.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a lawyer (don't worry, not the evil kind). I do Plaintiffs' side securities litigation, or in laymen's terms, help old people who got conned by shady investment brokers get their money back.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a very good chef, a good poker player, and a pretty good golfer (although I don't get to play as much as I'd like). I'm also a pretty intelligent guy, and frankly enjoy talking and discussing things, both of the significant and meaningless variety. I'm also a good listener, and usually the first person my friends go to for advice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book (I'm going with series, since individual books is too hard, I have multiple overwhelmed bookshelves) - The Desden Files by Jim Butcher, The Amber series by Roger Zelazny, The Discworld series by Terry Pratchett, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy series by Douglas Adams, and the Kingkiller Trilogy by Patrick Rothfuss.

Movies (ask me another day and this list might change, I'm kinda a movie junkie) - The Social Network, Cabin in the Woods, Die Hard, Blazing Saddles, The Avengers, Fight Club, The American President, Tin Cup, the Matrix, Princess Bride

Shows - Anything by Aaron Sorkin or Joss Whedon, Doctor Who, Torchwood, Sherlock, Top Gear (the real one), Get Smart (yes, the old show from the 60s), Suits, White Collar, Castle, Futurama, Once Upon a Time, Justified

Music - I listen to a pretty wide variety of stuff, but push comes to shove I'm kinda a metalhead. Favorite bands are Queen, Nightwish, At Vance, Metallica (Black Album and before), Mumford and Sons, Kamelot, Alestorm, Muse, and Eminem.

Food - uh...I like food? I enjoy trying new things, so I'm pretty open. Favorites (in no particular order) are thai, mexican, chinese, and bbq though. Also, fair warning, I don't eat pasta/noodles (not a health thing, I just find them gross, have since I was a baby).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Oxygen, water, know what, that's probably not what they mean, is it?

Actual answer:
My friends
The Internet
Good beer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
In general, my mind usually dwells on whatever I've spent a lot of time doing recently. If there's a book I'm particularly caught up in or a game I've been playing a lot, my brain will stay there. If there's a major news story, a political issue, or scientific discovery, it'll be there. Basically, I spend a lot of time thinking; whether it's "intellectual" thinking varies day to day.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Some combination of hanging out/playing games with friends, seeing a concert, seeing a new movie, going out to dinner/drinks with friends, getting lost in a book, catching up on TV, and occasionally working late.
You should message me if
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You're intelligent, fun, like doing new things, think I'm cute, funny, or interesting sounding, or if anything I said above this intrigues you.

Also, if you always know where your towel is.

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