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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 9:13am
Native American, White
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English, French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am unavailable for dating at this time. Well lets see... I used to be in the Coast Guard. Yaaaaaar!! I think I've spent at least a quarter of my life on the ocean. Nothing beats the smell of salty air in the early morning and a walk on a private beach. I love to laugh. I like to go out on a Friday night and play in a pool league on Tuesdays. I enjoy good conversation. I played sports in highschool and the military but I'm a scifi nerd. I have a couple of tattoos which I designed myself. If you're going to have art on your body forever it might as well be your own. I love drunken Science projects with my friends.(Blowing up a pumpkin with lasers....ect, just because everyone asks what that means). I enjoy quiet moments sometimes. I embrace everything that has to do with the ocean especially the creatures that live in it. I like to dance to a good beat. I consider myself a talented singer. Going out for walks in the summer and doing outdoor activities is quite enjoyable. Out of an eight hour beach experience I'll spend four to five of it in the ocean. I hate the winter and crave spring, summer, and fall. Although I do go ice fishing and snow boarding. Winter and being cold is when I'm the most uncomfortable. Maybe you can warm me up?? This is all you get. It's really brief and not very detailed, I know!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Well I'm singing karaoke, fishing, eating good food and drinking good wine with friends, working, relaxing.............What else you ask? Well wouldn't you like to know....
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hmm, lets see singing(Well, maybe the singing part is just in my head. Why don't you message me so we can get together and you can judge.), boating, shooting pool(I'll kick your ass), having fun, gardening, finding things amusing that shouldn't be, cuddling, making my cat purr(My friends call me "The Cat Whisperer". Cats absolutely love me), listening, playing devil's advocate and driving my friends crazy. The last two go hand in hand.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and my dimples. The way I look into your eyes. In warm weather probably my perfectly shaped shaved head! :P
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Let's see.....I'm only gonna give you a few because if your interested in me I actually enjoy the dating phase of things, mostly. I would rather not know every single detail about someone before I even talk to them on the phone. So I love steak, pierogies, sushi, italian food, Indian and much more. It's really fun to be introduced to a new food that hits my palate just right. I loved Starwars,Shawshank Redemption, Star Trek, Goonies, Mist, Zombieland, and the list goes on. No they're not all scifi geeky! Ask me and I'll gladly answer more. I enjoy Its Always Sunny, Vikings, Walking Dead, Dexter, Daily Show, Redsox on NESN, River Monsters, The Newsroom, Suits, Helix, True blood, Game of Thrones, Boardwalk Empire, and True Detective. Also I can't get enough of Shark Week. It just kicks ass. I feel like I've read thousands of books up until I went in the Military. I have a whole libraries worth at my mother's house. I'm an "on and off" reader. When I'm on I read a couple books a week steady. When I sit down and read, I manage to whip through them in a day or two. Music. Well, I listen to just about anything except for pop country music. It depends on what mood I'm in. I listen to NPR in the morning. I have a love/hate relationship with Garrison Keillor.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. family
2. car
3. friends
4. pets
5. laughter
6. Ocean
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When are you going to message me so we can hold hands and laugh together at life?? Don't worry, you'll feel comfortable and safe in my arms. Should we conquer the world together or live the quiet life? I know what I want. Ok, so I don't think about that most of the time. Why would I? I don't even know you!........yet. Wink! Wink!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am singing! That's right!! Karaoke baby!! I also love playing pool at the WWII club in Northampton, dancing and hanging out with my friends. Maybe enjoying a quiet night on my couch or a walk around town. Actually I usually go there on Saturdays. See you there??
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Misogynistic assholes make me want to commit uncharacteristic acts of violence! I did say uncharacteristic. Also I can touch my nose with my tongue.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
No Republicans (especially tea party), your conservative way of thinking is so repressive,restrictive, you are the dinosaurs of our time.(in other words ready for extinction) Your way of thinking is so foreign to me we couldn't ever be compatible. I sound interesting. I'm much, much, more interesting in person than I am on paper. You've just met your perfect match! So what are you waiting for? Message me already........It's a lifetime of adventure from here on out! Oh, and if Wine and Canvas is something you think you would love to try or go again to. I've never been and want to find someone to go with. ;-) Also I don't pay for OkCupid so I don't know any of you that have just "liked" me. I can see how many of you there are. Just not who you are. Why not send a light message to me instead. Then I can look at your profile and we can go from there.