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WildFlutterby

35 / F / Straight / Married

Lubbock, Texas

Her Details

Last Online
May 5
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am married to my best friend, so if you're looking for more than a friendship, please move on.

I hate having to write self summaries, but here is my best effort. I joined the Navy after high school. I have no children and I am not sure when I will. It could be in the cards- later on- hopefully.

I love ink, body art, tattoos whatever you want to call it. I have a LOT of them, with plans to get more. YAY!!! I love to paint (mostly oil painting or acrylics, and I love to cook. Lately, I have been indulging more in reading and playing on the computer as I have not found the inspiration to start a new project. I like to swim, sing, dance, play pool or just hang out with my friends watching movies or at the bar. I love to get out and have fun with friends.

I am strong, funny, and well-travelled
What I’m doing with my life
Learning to tattoo!!!!!

I am trying to just live life, while bettering myself whenever I can. Day by day, I take it as it comes. I have been thinking about going back to school, though I'm not sure what I would study- I do have some ideas. I was in nursing school, but didn't complete the program. I am also one class away from getting my associates from SPC in foreign language and have decided I would like to learn ASL as well as refreshing my Spanish skills. I also want to travel more- want to see Europe, Africa and South America.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at just going with things, taking it easy- though I hate for people to break plans (I know it seems like a contradiction, but it isn't. I just like to stick to the plan IF there is one). I am a social chamelion.

I am also really good at listening. Many of my friends call me when they have a problem, and even if I have no advice, they are glad for an ear to bend or a shoulder on which to cry.
The first things people usually notice about me
my eyes- they're blue, or those (pesky) freckles across my nose and cheekbones which tend to stand out more when I have been out in the sun. My confidence and complete insecurity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books- I really love to read. My favorite books range from Aloha, Mr. Lucky(a cheap paper back I picked up in the dollar store, and cannot find another copy of!!) to The Celestine Prophesy and a whole lot more, though lately I have been on an Charlaine Harris (The Sookie Stackhouse novels on which the HBO series True Blood is based) kick. Recently have read some Stephen King, Anne Rice, a prayer book, and have been thumbing through a cookbook. My preferred read is usually fiction.

Movies- I generally prefer romantic comedies, but anything funny will do, as I LOVE to laugh. I also like psychological thrillers- THEY ROCK! (but not so much the gory slasher flicks- they are not my thing.)

Music- My tastes depend on my mood for the day, everything from Ludacris to Avenged Sevenfold to Reba and much much more. Lately it's been more mixed up than ever and I'm loving it! I love to sing and dance also!

Food- I like to bake. My favorite foods are chineese, american, mexican, itallian. I like to cook at home or go out.
The six things I could never do without
Six things that I could never do without are God, family, friends, a job, time alone, and caffiene.

I didn't realize until recently that some of these things were so important to me. In the past family, friends and God were not a priority. My faith has gotten me through the most rotten of situations and is very one of the VERY most important things in my life. I'm not a bible beater or someone that HAS to go to church, but I believe and that's that. God has blessed me with great people in my life and I don't want to waste what I've been given.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
where my life is heading, and what I'm supposed to be learning from all the experiences I'm gathering. God. Work. Friends. Love.
On a typical Friday night I am
home with my husband, out with my husband, or at the tattoo shop (with or without my husband)
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
you are interested in getting to know me better, want to make new friends, or you are just plain bored. You should probably just message me, I am up for hanging out with friends and having fun!