A couple of my female friends who know me quite well thought that what I had written in this section wasn't clear enough about who I am and what I'm looking for, so I asked one of them, cabbomb, to write what she thought should be conveyed about me, and she said she would just as long as I promised not to edit it in any way. So here's what she wrote in its entirety:

"If you are looking for someone to go to dinner with, movies with and have a casual fun time in bed with while you navigate the frustrating waters of dating this is totally the guy. If you are looking for a serious relationship only keep looking elsewhere. I have known him for a couple years and he is fun, easy to talk to and extremely emotionally supportive however he is not and will not be at any time in the near future, if ever, be looking for a relationship beyond friends with benefits with a strong emphasis on the friends part. He is and will be dating several other people however still manages to find time to hang out and have a stress free time with everyone in his life. He is VERY open relationship friendly and he is so much fun in bed."

So there you go, and I do trust her opinion about me as she knows me quite well. Also my other female friends agreed that she hit the nail on the head, so I figure I'll just let her statement about me serve as my self-summary. If you need any clarification or questions answered, feel free to ask me anything. Feel free to ask her too if you must, but just be respectful :)

Other than working (I'm a stock broker) I'm just enjoying living in LA, spending time with people I care about, and am just having a good time.

I'm a great conversationalist, cause I ask a lot of questions (mostly good, I hope) and am a great listener. I'm also very well rounded and fairly knowledgable about all kinds of useless pieces of minutiae. I'm especially good at remembering things about movies, for some reason (quotes, actors, directors, etc).

I think what people first notice about me is that I'm pretty smart and funny and am very good-natured and laid back. Either that or that I'm big and tall.

I like all different kinds of books, movies, shows, music and food. My favorite books are Catcher in the Rye, Self Made Man and The Bachman Books. My favorite movies are Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, the Lord of the Rings movies, A Clockwork Orange, Fight Club and many others (too many to list). I've never been a huge TV watcher, but my all time favorite shows are The Wire, The Shield, Deadwood and Arrested Development. My two favorite bands are Pink Floyd and Nine Inch Nails, but I'm also very fond of Peter Gabriel, Daft Punk, Ice Cube, Beethoven, Bjork and many others. My favorite kinds of food are seafood, Italian, Mexican, Chinese, Sushi and American.

Friends/family would be right at the top of this list, followed closely by movies and music. Other than that I'd probably have to say independence and travel. Oh yeah, and cunnilingus :)

Just trying to stay happy and make sure I have fun.

Either on a date, hanging out with friends or spending a quiet evening alone, probably watching a movie.

I own a bidet.

You're a bigger girl (BBW) of any race who isn't looking to get too serious, but is just looking for someone fun to go out with.