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WildandFree37

41 / M / straight / Available

Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish

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I am new, friendly, and curious.

My Self-Summary

Well, its safe to say I'm unique. In college, I was the only compsci major I knew who took upper level English lit courses in the summer for fun. My wife and I are in an open marriage, which makes life much more exciting.

Spiritually speaking, I classify myself as Buddhist/Pagan/Wiccan/Taoist or agnostic depending on the phases of the moon.

By the way, I don't have a picture up yet, mainly because I don't have a scanner, but also because I'm not sure what sort of pic to post. This is Oklahoma, after all, and I'd hate to freak out the neighbors if they figured out we had an open marriage.

What I’m doing with my life

I've been a computer analyst for the federal government for quite some time now. I can tell you quite a bit more than you'd ever want to know about government accounting, and lack thereof.

I'm also a frustrated writer. I've started on three or four books, either sci-fi or fantasy, but can't get them off the ground. Any suggestions about thwarting writer's block would be appreciated.

I’m really good at

I've always been very good at creative writing. I'm a good swimmer and not too bad on rollerblades.

The first things people usually notice about me

Don't know, you'd have to ask them.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

That's a long list. Books: Skinny Legs and All by Tom Robbins, Stephen King's Gunslinger series, American God's or anything written by Neil Gaiman. The Lord of the Rings (movies and books). The Hitchhiker's guide to the Galaxy, Any number of Anne Tyler's novels, as well as Anne Rice's. Anything by Flannery O'Conner because lupus and Catholicism put together make for some pretty twisted writing.

Movies: Sin City, The Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, Rabbit Proof Fence, Batman Begins, Old School, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Blazing Saddles, Pulp Fiction and Kill Bill I & II.

Music: Metallica, Rob Zombie, Def Leopard, Dokken, Ratt, Tori Amos, Enya, Evanescence, Three Doors Down and lots of other stuff as well.

foods: I love Mexican, seafood, Thai, chinese, cajun and am game to try just about any kind of cuisine.

The six things I could never do without

Car, Net access, pizza, kisses, sex, music

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Why it is, that when I view my profile on here, I find that I am only 94% compatible with myself. polyamory

On a typical Friday night I am

Could be doing lots of things, what's typical?

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Although I am very talented with oral sex, and with straight sex, and have never failed to bring a woman to orgasm either way, for some reason I suck at manual stimulation. Sometimes I can masterbate a woman *adequately* and sometimes, its just like, ok, never mind, where did you put that tongue again?

You should message me if

You are interested in intellectual discussion, interested in being friends, or think we might hit it off romantically.