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63 M San Diego, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 53–73
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:40am
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I have been on and off this site since 2011. Recent break-up after one year relationship. Not looking forward to the work that goes into this, but what else can you do? After gradually tapering back, have fully retired from work as a Registered Nurse, so you would have to tolerate some of my stuff that goes with being one. I have a very modest Body Energy Healing practice which I do from my home. Live - Great spot in a nice Mobiehome Park. My children - Have all had four legs, my current companion is an eight year old male Austrilian Shepherd, named Jake. He was born blind, continually inspires me. Also have an absolutely darling two year old Miniature Aussie whose name is Klio, short for Kliopatra. If you don't like dogs you might as well stop here. I was born in eastern Connecticut, an only child, both parents deceased. Moved to S.D. in 1978, never thought of moving back. I have been married twice, the first for 5 years, both of us very young and very naive. The second lasted 25 years, ending about 10 years ago. Current appearance - I wore a beard most of my adult life and wore my hair the same way. A while ago I tried the more contemporary look: no beard, different hair style. The beard and hair are back and I'm a better man for it.
What I’m doing with my life
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Having recently completed the complete separation from Nursing and Hospitals, I will at some point think about what comes next. I became interested in body energy healing, specifically a modality in which a trained Practitioner is able to facilitate client healing using the body's innate ability to self heal. I started as a client and knew within a few months this was something I wanted to learn. As stated I have a small practice and never counted on this as a money maker.
I’m really good at
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Planning and problem solving. I'm not brilliant, but do possess a practical mind which is capable of critical thinking, ability to see available options and make confident decisions. In the work place I am considered a leader. My style is subtle, it is an art to bring individuals together for a common purpose. I have been a homeowner my entire adult life and wanted to learn how to build, develop and repair things. I find it very satisfying to have a vision for a given project and to make it a reality. I am also generous in sharing these skills with friends. There was a time when much of this was out of economic necessity, now more for personal pleasure.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall - 6 feet 4 inches with any kind of shoes on, weight - 190. I have been told I have a gentle voice and manner of speaking. I speak from the heart when the subject is an important one, and listen attentively when someone else is sharing something that is important to them with me. I am good at helping people feel at ease, a necessity in my work, a plus in life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music - Favorite musician for life - Bruce Springsteen. Others: Neil Young, Robbie Robertson, Paul Simon - especially Graceland. Females - Nora Jones, Sara MacLachlan, Melissa Ethridge. I do not understand opera, exposure to classical is limited but open. Some jazz is cool, again in moderation. I really like live music; San Diego has some wonderful local musicians. Movies - Lord of The Rings was done so well. Have you watched Platoon? The best Viet Nam movie made, all of the individuals so relatable. Tom Hanks portrayal of Forrest Gump. The Last of the Mohicans with Daniel Day Lewis and Russel Means. "I will find you." Argo was very well done. Also like documentaries, nature studies, especially those which educate. Reading a good book is comparable to a good dessert. Food - Diverse and many ethnicities. I am learning more about food preparation. I fix good salads, make better than Jamba Juice smoothies and am nutrition conscious. Was married for 25 years to someone who is a good cook, am on a learning curve. I don't think males fully appreciate what's involved in meal planning - until they have to do it themselves.
The six things I could never do without
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My two canine companions, Klio and Jake. The quality people in my life. Music. The tranquility of my home. Some form of work which stimulates and challenges. A motorcycle ride in East County, good solo, better with two.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the remainder of my life will be like.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I like being at home. There is peace and tranquility here. If I am out it would be for good local music. I prefer to do restaurants and movies when fewer other people are doing them. Do not like crowded, noisy, people intense environments in general; but if there's somewhere reasonably calm I'm up for going. With the right companion almost any environment is OK.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I consider myself a fortunate individual. I am not looking for anyone out of necessity or intense lonliness, mutual enhancement is the goal. I am far from perfect (Which is not a goal) do want to continue to grow and evolve. I have had a medium build my entire life and consistent with my health beliefs prefer someone comparable, I would not be turned off by someone who is a little overweight.
You should message me if
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Let's get down to the important stuff. I do not want to live with anyone or marry again. You do not live on the financial edge. You value companionship, and physical intimacy is important to you.You believe that individual chemistry may take longer than five minutes to develop. I am willing to listen without judging, and more likely to be accepting. I simply ask that you do the same with me.