I am a self-employed, INTJ, fixer-of-things. I do what I want, when I want, and in the manner I want. Not quite magically, adequate revenue flows, so I have a bit 'o time to scale Maslow's pyramid.
I am married, not unhappily, and that will not change. However, there are experiences not found within this arrangement that I would fondly try, maybe even repeatedly!
This is about self-actualization, right?