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31 • M • Oakland, CA
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- Ages 25–38
- Near me
- Who are single
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- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
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- A little extra
- Graduated from masters program
- Art / Music / Writing
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- Doesn’t have kids
Staying up late.
I've been playing guitar since I was 12, and I've moved on to bass, mandolin, and banjo (sparingly). My favorite hobby is collecting new instruments to mess around on. I have a diverse but opinionated love of all types of rock music, and deep down, I have a soft spot for hip hop, wussy-indie-folk-rock, and dorky guitar music. Also, I grew up playing grunge, so my inner 15 year-old thinks Pearl Jam is the best band that ever existed.
I love movies because they're usually pretty entertaining and they ask very little of you. A couple hours are a pretty small investment and odds are I'd waste the time anyway. So if you have a movie that you desperately want to go see, I'll go see it with you even if there's a 99% chance I won't like it.
My mom is a great southern cook. I grew up like I was in Paula Dean's kitchen, minus the racism. I'm pretty open to eating anything that's put on a plate in front of me, and even I didn't like it, I'd probably just eat anyway because I wouldn't want to be rude.
But you'll never find out where I hid the safe.
All of my long term relationships have been with strong, smart, independent women - I like it that way.
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