Okay, what I had here before was a bit heavy on the melodrama. But now I'm in the mood for some MELLOW drama.
Come over and we can play bossa nova records and put our feet up and talk about family dynamics and fluid sexual identities.
Frantically neurotic and consistently overextended guy seeks friendly calming presence and skilled perspective-shifter / privelege-checker.
I already have cats, they don't get the job done.
Also if you're a progressive-seeming dude or bi/gay/queer gal near Brooklyn, I'm helping out an awesome friend of mine with some advance scouting. She's good people, I can vouch for her.
Also also I tend to be shy as fuck, so I might spend a lot of time just starring or 'liking' profiles of people who seem to have exceptionally friendly faces or whose profiles indicate that they'd be good people to talk to about sexuality/polyness/kink issues, so that they'll show up in my list and I can send them a message later, when I peek my head up out of my hideyhole. If I see my shadow, it's 6 more weeks of Edgar Winter. (What I'm saying is; don't wait for me to mesage first if you want to say hello.)
(Also: I'm not at all averse to making friends with fellow cis guys, but they tend to be shittier listeners and are less likely to be emotionally, politically and socially alligned with me, even here. But if you're partnered with a cis man/men, and your guy(s) is/are awesome too, then I'm happy to make multiple friends!)