I have spent a lot of time and energy on my primary career in healthcare. With that well underway, I am now more focused on dating and relationships. Over the last two years, I have started a hobby career of life coaching.
I can be playful in jeans and t shirt while just hanging out or, dressed to the nine, in a suit for your company's Christmas party. There is a time and place for everything. Especially wearing only underwear when doing chores.
I stay fit by working out three times a week, playing volleyball (beach and court), skiing, and I cycle as well. The outdoors are awesome. Camping and fishing are also fun in the summertime. I cycled all 75km in the Becel ride for heart this year without ever having cycled an organized ride. I also just participated in the tough mudder competition this year.
Sometimes I like to watch a riveting documentary, or movie with my dinner, but with a partner I sometimes desire to have a more intimate dinner where we talk, laugh and get in each other's minds.
I noticed that a lot of women claim to seek a "genuine" or "real" relationship. I imagine a lot of men would like that to, although I haven't gone to the extent of searching their profiles to know for sure. I also imagine that we all don't know how to seek such a person. I do. ;)
With my dream partner i imagine travelling, hosting bbqs for friends, taking in the sights and sounds of Toronto, staying active, being a best friend, and when we are ready, embarking on a sexual and spiritual journey.
My ideal partner would be self aware and know that she is a product of social and parental conditioning. Bonus points for taller than 5'3"
Active listening. For example, if you have just had enough of societal pressures, and can't do it all anymore, my first response wont be "Give me credit because I unloaded the dishwasher!!!" Ill be there to talk to.
Movies...Anything Michael Moore, war movies, Band of Brothers, Valkyrie, Saving Private Ryan. Anything Tom Hanks, Da Vinci Code, Cohen brothers movies. *Documentaries about conspiracies, wars, sexuality, sociology, politics, psychology. Shawshank Redemption is my all time favorite movie.
Music.. Any classic rock or anything with acoustic or electric guitar in it. Siriusxm coffeehouse channel is my FAVORITE.
Food..Italian (sparingly.....too many carbs!). Sushi. Greek. Middle Eastern. Ethiopian. Anything ethnic. I make some mean Barbequed gourmet pizzas.
TV Shows.....I don't want cable because I know I am too weak to refrain from watching too much. Every time a friend suggests a new great series, I get hooked and then I need to watch every episode. It just takes too much time away from higher brain power activities. It happened with Walking Dead, "Its always Sunny in Philadelphia", and Masters of Sex. I would much rather read books. I would rather not have cable and not know what I am missing.
Love(and it's manifestations)
I think 'Big Fish' and 'The Notebook' are good movies.
My pee smells funny after I eat Asparagus.
You are a woman who can actually sit with a man in real vulnerability and fear.