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30 M Jersey City, NJ

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–34
  • Near me
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My Details

Last Online
Sep 7
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Trying to quit
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from space camp
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
UPDATE: 8/15/13 I have a girlfriend now so I am off the market. I have made many friends on OkC in the past and I look forward to making more!

Born and raised in Mobile, AL. In the past I have lived in Charleston SC, upstate New York, Virginia Beach, Philadelphia and now I am living in Jersey City loving the NYC life.

I like to try and enjoy life no matter what it brings,
I love learning, I'm an information sponge.
Not afraid to try new things, always looking for new experiences.
I enjoy my life.
I'm here for new connections with real people, through the medium of this newfangled interwebs

I like the smell of lavender when cleaning, citrus smells for most other times and my favorite color is green!

I'm an educated hippie, a poor socialite, a day tripper, a night owl, a man caught between worlds, exploring the crevasse
What I’m doing with my life
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I build things. I am a prototype engineer. I work for a communications R&D company and I love my job. I was a Nuclear Reactor Operator on an Aircraft Carrier. Got out of the military on my birthday last summer after six years and moved to Philadelphia to start a new life, didn't find what I was looking for there. Then I got this awesome job in Jersey City!
I couldn't be happier.

I greatly enjoy traveling, the Navy has brought me all over the world and I love to travel the US True happiness comes from the journey, not the destination! True for life as well as everyday driving!

I take pictures as a hobby and lately have been trying out HDR photography. Here are some of my pictures. (link)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Everything! Except normal conversations...
I am one of those jack of all trades master of none types. Sometimes it sucks, sometimes it comes in handy. I try to see things from a different perspective and I am usually able to articulate my thoughts pretty well. I learn quickly, I am able to improvise, work well under pressure... So I guess I am good at ...things...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like to think it's My smile :)
I am a very kind person, I care.
Usually I am very outgoing, a lot of my best experiences come from talking to strangers during my travels.
I show my emotions on my face and I wish I could help that
Also I kind of look a lot like Joseph Gordon-Levitt if i squint my eyes. Which is good, i guess. He dresses nicely these days...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Isaac Asimov's Foundation series, Sir Arthur C. Clark's Time Odyssey series, Stephen King's Dark Tower series, James Rollins' Sigma Force series, and every book written by Micheal Crichton.
Whatever the newest cool movie is. There isnt really one movie i could watch over and over because i love it so much. Also, The Producers (2005) and The Life Aquatic with Steve Zissou
I have about 100000ish MP3's, and I stream internet radio.... Also, The Knife, Dirty Projectors, Animal Collective, AWOLNATION, Miike Snow, and Yeasayer. (2013: still love these groups, but I should update this eventually.... wish spotify had an easy way to link to profile...)
FOOD IS YUMMY. There really isn't much that I won't at least try!
Arrested Development, Workaholics, Bob's Burgers, and most sketch comedy... Mr Show, UCB, WKUK and the like.
Interweb:,,,, and
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Internet - The knowledge of a species at my fingertips. How could I ever go back to before?
Adventure - What's life without adventure?
Humor - Laughter is the best medicine. Unless you have an illness...
Transportation - Gotta get there faster then my legs can take me.
People in general - I love meeting new people, hearing new ideas, learning things. Humans are social creatures, I thrive on it.
Smartphone - My Droid DNA amazes me everyday, internet everywhere, fast, awesome.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How we're slow to acknowledge the knots in our laces...

Space - From my living room, to the front yard, all the way to unseen quasars. Would like to eventually do heliophysics research (long term goal). I dream of finding new correlations between the Earth's and the Sun's respective climates.
Time - What time is it, what am I doing tomorrow, 5 years from now, what is time, why cant i feel it?
Reality? - I enjoy surrealism. Thinking of other dimensions (m theory) is fun too.

When I am not thinking of those things I am usually slightly more grounded. I like to watch Hulu and Netflix when I'm bored too. Haven't had a regular tv signal since '03.
I want to learn the lindy hop (and other swing styles).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Saving children from a burning building, but not the British children.

And running wild in the streets of NYC... fall is almost here!!!!~
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm pretty open... sooooo I donno, what do you want to know?
You should message me if
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You want to talk
I enjoy talking or chatting on these interwebs or in person.
I am really down for anything.
I want to experience everything, probably not possible, but dammit I'm trying!
I like meeting interesting people and having unique conversations, trying new activities and whatnot. I just moved to the area so maybe you can share a cool place or something like that.

Anyways, I'm quite friendly. So don't be scared to message me.