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Willowsgirl20

20 / F / gay / Single

Middleton, Wisconsin

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am fun, sweet, and a dyke!.

My Self-Summary

I am a 20-year old lesbian woman. I am also a MTF transsexual, I don't like to refer to myself as "trans" because it implies that I am less than a woman. I write this just to let anyone know. I fucked up a relationship when I didn't tell her about that part of myself. I very much regret not telling her that, cause she was an awesome person. So because I don't want to do that again, I'm going to be up front about it now. I haven't got the surgery yet, but I will once I get the money. School comes first.

On a lighter note, I am going to school to be a high school English teacher. I love to read books! Anything and everything as long as I'm into the subject matter. I am very passionate about feminism and LBGT rights, some say I'm TO passionate, but that is not going to change. I'm pretty easy going and generally love people. I get attached really easy. I try to get a long with everyone I met and give them a chance to be kind.

I'm really looking for someone who would want to be in relationship. I hate being single. I want someone I can spend time with and be sweet with. Someone who I can talk to about anything and everything. I'll be friends with you, if I have to, but I would really rather find someone who is willing to have a monogamous relationship with me. I can't do long distance any more. I have tried that twice and it has been a disaster both times. So if you live outside the state of Wisconsin please don't waste your time with wanting to date me. I'm going to say no that.

What I’m doing with my life

I am currently attend University of Wisconsin Whitewater to get my teaching degree. I have wanted to be a teacher ever since I went to a small little alternative high school. The teachers there were so amazing! Every one of them, knew at least one of the kids very well. What there home life was like, what they are like, their own issues, etc. Made me realize what public education could do and how great teachers can be. I want to be a part of that. I am huge fan of alternative education because it helps so many kids.

I’m really good at

People are always coming up to me and telling me personal things. Apparently, because I am blunt about things and I am honest people trust me to keep secrets. I have been told that I am a good listener. Otherwise I'm honestly not sure.

The first things people usually notice about me

I guess the fact that I am blunt. I don't really beat around the bush. I am pretty direct. Also my hair. I have long, wavy, thick, blond hair that gets really hot in the summer.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Favorite books: Cunt, Harry Potter, Anything by Douglas Preston and Lincoln Child, Written on the Body, Why Buffy Matters: The Art of Buffy the Vampire Slayer (I'm a HUGE BtVS fan). Anything by Chuck Palahniuk (Invisible Monsters is my favorite) and so many more.

Favorite Music: I'm not a huge music fan, but my favorite band is Modest Mouse.

Favorite TV shows: Top thre favorite shows of all time are in order: Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Doctor Who (Old and New) and The L Word, the rest are in no real order: How I Met Your Mother, Torchwood, The Sarah Jane Adventures, South Park, House, Angel, Firefly, Dollhouse, and so many more.

Favorite Movies: Better Than Chocolate, The Dark Knight, The Shawshank Redemption, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Cube, Hyper Cube, Cube Zero, Clue, Cabaret, Donnie Darko, South Park: Bigger, Longer and Uncut, and so much more!

The six things I could never do without

In no particular order:
1. My friends/family
2. My values/beliefs
3. My laptop.
4. My books.
5. My education.
6. Love.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Feminism and LGBT rights. I think about them so much I get headaches. My dream girl and my dream wedding. I know I'm such a dork XD. Can't help it. My friends and family also on the top of my list of things I think about. The quickest way for me to really dislike you is to be mean to my friends and family. I love them all to death!

On a typical Friday night I am

Right now working. I work the graveyard shift at one of the schools dinning halls. It sucks.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

See my summary.

You should message me if

You are willing to put up with a extremely random girl. If you like extremely femme dykes. If you are a really femme both in personality and looks or if you have a butch appearance but a really femme personality. I'm not into butch women. If you want to be a in a relationship with me and think we will hit it off. If you live in the state of Wisconsin and can put up with all the other stuff written above.

If you are NOT a guy. I'm just not interested, thanks, but no thanks.