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CallEmAsISeeEm

28 M Laramie, WY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:29pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Management
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
caution, this page under renovations...

ABOUT YOU:
Please be as beautiful on the inside as you are on the outside, confident, emotionally available and capable of vulnerability. You should be generally happy and self-aware as well as mindful of others, the planet and society. You should have a critical, assertive, and skeptical mind. You should have a dinner dress and a pair of hiking boots and perhaps even a sleeping bag. You should recognize that not all books were created equally and strive to read the good ones. You should enjoy discussing ideas. You should know what you want in life and be pursuing those goals. Above all, you should be smiling.

Deal breakers: Chronic or clinical depression; anything more than a casual, trivial interest in popular culture. Basically, anything more than a trivial, sarcastic interest in celebrity "culture" or television shows is a huge turn off. Also, sports, which are so boring it melts the mind (watching, not playing; rock on if you're an athlete).

Disengagement with the world is unforgivable; life is hard, but it's a lot harder if you don't give a damn.

Some of the above comes from personal experience, some from simple observation. Call me picky.

And of course, in every bit of the above, I am careful not to expect anything of anyone which I do not first expect of myself.

ABOUT ME:
I have a few really good friends rather than the opposite. I'm like Eleanor Roosevelt: I'd rather talk about ideas than things or people. Of course––and I'm sure Ms Roosevelt would agree with me on this––things and actions are the manifestation of ideas and beliefs. Which means it's prudent to venture from the abstract to the concrete at least occasionally, not only to reality-test, but also to affect positive change in the world. No one likes a navel-gazer. Besides, however we think, our thoughts become actions; it's important to be intentional about this process. I try to keep my blind spots small; how successful I am, I must leave to others to judge.

Politically, I am left of center, not liberal, not conservative, definitely progressive; pro choice, pro gay-rights; pro gun-rights, pro gun-control, pro-publicly funded campaigns, pro-term limits, anti-lobby, anti-party, anti-suburban-military-congressional-complex, anti-carbon and anti-growth based economics.

Spiritually, I am a seeker. I am quite comfortable not knowing and living with cosmic uncertainty. I don't believe there is a god or creative force in the universe. The actual or seeming lack of a cosmic 'purpose' to life does not at all take away from our personal, profound human experience of it. I believe in us; I believe in humanity. My basic spiritual nourishment is community, literature and meditation. I thrive on high-quality basics: ideas, relationships with friends and family, my pup, food, water and such. :P

I spend some of my time mountain biking, running, hiking, backcountry camping, fishing, hunting, etc. I don't watch television; I avoid it like the plague because it is a plague... We won't get along very well if you're much of a television watcher...

Every good rule has exceptions. Eg: Archer (Lannnnnna!!), and whacked-out, B-grade monster movies like Cloverfield, Super 8, Godzilla, Mars Attacks, Tremors... you get the idea. Fun and ironical is fine on occasion, of course. Serious indulgence, not so much.

I lived in Central America for nine months and northern Europe for four. I've been mugged and hit by a car (I won, on both counts). I once rode across the US on a side-car motorcycle. I am a morning person but stay up way too late, generally.

For the most part I am a domesticated creature and can keep my hands to myself until informed otherwise. If you're looking for amigos first and foremost, that can totally work. Romance is good, but if it prevents making new friends then desire's gone too far. The more the merrier, in this little life, aye?

And even if romance is the goal, let's take time to become friends first. In my experience, the quicker things start, the quicker they end.

Get in touch, it'll be very nice to meet you.
What I’m doing with my life
hot-rodding an old zeppelin for a round-the-world tour....

(Hot-rodding an 1880s farm house for use as a launch pad for round-the-world tours... But the zeppelin thing sounds cooler.)
I’m really good at
Humility. And modesty.
The first things people usually notice about me
The parrot I've trained to do all my lines in James Mason's voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:
A Brief History of Neoliberalism - Harvey
How Buildings Learn - Brand
Starship Century - multiple
Stranger in a Strange Land - Heinlein
The Illiad - Homer

Movies:
Anything with Ice Cube leading...
(Lonely are the Brave and Alien... If you must know.)

Shows:
Archer.

Music:
Whatever is super popular with everyone at any given moment... I try to be as generic as possible.

(Actually, I do indulge in some pretty noxious tunes. Dubstep, old school hip hop, turn table work, IDM... I try to atone for my sins by listening to the usual suspects from the classical repertoire. Want to go to the symphony and hit the NORAD Dance Bar or Beta for the after party??)

Food:
I am a cannibal in an unsympathetic world...
(I work and shop at the little co-op in town... I keep ducks for fresh eggs... I like to bake and cook... The kitchen is the best room in the house.)

PS- if you're enough of a music dork, find me on Pandora... aBowler is my callsign. And while we're at it, if you're enough of a dork period, my callsign on Words with Friends is the same as this one: CallEmAsISeeEm. Hit me up.
The six things I could never do without
High quality basics.
Strong weather; books (ideas); my dog, my family and my friends; my health; their health; and community.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How sometimes, during the day, you can see the moon, even tho' the sun is out and it's not nighttime.
On a typical Friday night I am
Howling at the stars...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I hope you want to beat me in backgammon over breakfast.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 23–35
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you be sarcastic as fuck. Or whatever... yo.

If you made it this far, by all means, get in touch.