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42 Portland, OR Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I love living in Portland . I love the energy, the smiley people, the consideration and kindness I feel here maybe just a bit more than the average American metropolis. I love the invitation to all of the fun stuff that is present every day.

I enjoy simple things like a beautiful bike ride (I have ridden Portland to the coast and a little further). I love a happy cat on my lap, an evening picnic in a park, a warm woodstove fire in the winter.

Friendships, experiences, adventures, daily goals, long term goals, and animal friends are important to me. I would love to meet people who mention kindness as something they practice and seek in others. A theme of my life is chasing after things I think I may love. I like being around others who do the same.
What I’m doing with my life
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At work I fly hundreds of trusting strangers around the sky every week. At home, I'm often a project person. In 2012 I built a large enclosed pergola outdoor garden area for my cats, so they can go outside whenever they want, but never be roaming. It's not as weird as it may sound... it also serves as an outdoor living room/sun patio for people too. 2014 project: painted my house, no more beige outside! I like woodworking, bike riding, swimming. I can cook/bake a pretty good meal once in a while-- how many guys have you met that can fly a jet and bake a dacquoise in the same day? I love building a fire many nights in the dark Portland winter. I volunteer at the Food Bank and with an animal rescue organization.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Remodeling and improving my house.
-Finding agates on the beach (lots of visits any time of year).
-Building some of my own furniture, 2 outdoor sets most recently.
-Listening to advice/suggestions.
-I have been told I have a good eye for art and style (no idea if this is actually true).
-I have some skill at tinkering and fixing things before just throwing them away if they're not working. I experience a surprising amount of giddy satisfaction when I can give a little longer life to the inanimate objects and tools of life. My friends make fun of this sometimes... until they have a broken something or other.
-I am pretty bad at gardening but really want to turn my front yard into a vegetable garden... sorry, plants. I will try to get better. (The green parts go above ground most of the time, right?). Having expert friends who help is the best gardening skill I have.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I listen. I have a dry sense of humor. My legs are probably my best physical feature, more so in bike season. Been told I have very blue eyes once or twice, but I don' t think they're that blue myself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Good Life by William Irvine, a book about the ancient school of Stoic Philosophy. The Godfather (book and movie), Dr. Strangelove, Pompeii by Robert Harris, books by Raj Patel (how to live better in terms of value and sustainablilty), MadMen-- Sunday nights at the Hollywood were fun, Marc Maron podcasts, Louis CK, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Al Stewart, Peppino D'Agostino, Pete Krebs, Anna Scouten (an incredible YouTube musician, but I hope she becomes a HUGE star when the world hears more of her).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, pets, education, a bike, ocean visits, all forms of art/creativity and music. These were not all technically "things." And who came up with this 6 limit? I like snow, I like when it is snowing, firewood smoke, warm blankets, cool nights. Equator Coffee Breakfast Blend.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How important one person can be in the life of another, and how just one friend can lead to so many others. I know, sounds a bit sappy, but I have thought about this a lot recently.

And this:
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No typical... so just about anything.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I named my new bicycle after a cat I loved and had to say goodbye to a while ago-- it's the same color he was and his name is painted on it. Maybe not too private, but it is pretty personal to me, and it just became the most precious non-living thing in my life. And I just painted my house about that same color too. There may be a pattern here...
You should message me if
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Something sounded good to you... You think there might be something fun to explore. You need someone to lift heavy objects on request. You're not sure exactly what you expect to find, but you know it's worth the trouble to keep looking for it.