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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28-43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:46pm
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love living in Portland. Moved here from Chicago in 2008. Best choice ever.

I enjoy simple things like a beautiful hike or bike ride. I love a happy cat on my lap, an evening picnic in a park, a warm woodstove in the winter.

Friendships, experiences, adventures, and animal friends are important to me. I would love to meet someone who finds her joy in similar simplicities.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
At work I fly hundreds of trusting strangers around the sky every week. At home, I'm often a project person. In 2012 I built a large completely fenced-in garden area for my cats, so they can go outside whenever they want, but never be roaming. It serves as an outdoor living room/sun patio for people too. 2014 project: painted my house, no more beige outside! 2015 projects, turned the side of my driveway into a mini apple/berry orchard. I like woodworking, bike riding, swimming. I like to cook and bake... How many guys have you met that can fly a jet and bake a dacquoise in the same day? I love building a fire many nights in the dark Portland winter.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Remodeling and improving my house.
-Finding agates on the beach (lots of visits any time of year).
-Building some of my own furniture, 2 outdoor sets most recently.
-Listening to advice/suggestions.
-I have been told I have a good eye for art and style (no idea if this is actually true).
-tinkering and fixing things.
-I am pretty bad at gardening but try.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Latest kindle read... Alan Watts' Behold the Spirit, A Study in the Necessity of Mystical Religion. The Good Life by William Irvine, a book about the ancient school of Stoic Philosophy.The Value of Nothing by Raj Patel (how to live better in terms of value and sustainablilty), MadMen-- Sunday nights at the Hollywood were fun, Louis CK, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Al Stewart, Pete Krebs, Anna Scouten (a YouTube musician, I hope the world hears more of her).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, pets, education, a bike, ocean visits, all forms of art/creativity and music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
That life can be pretty great if you relax and live it, figuring it out as you go. How important one person can be in the life of another, and how just one friend can lead to so many others.

And this:
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Just about anything, at home, at work, having fun, ...?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I named my new bicycle after a cat I loved and had to say goodbye to a while ago-- I had it painted his color and had his name is painted on it. Maybe not too private, but it is pretty personal to me, and it just became the most precious non-living thing in my life. And I just painted my house about that same color too. There may be a pattern here...
You should message me if
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Something sounded good to you... You think there might be something fun to explore. You need someone to lift heavy objects on request. You're not sure exactly what you expect to find, but you know it's worth the trouble to keep looking for it.