Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have sometimes been called beautiful or elegant, but rarely
pretty and never cute. I'm large and comfortable being so. I have
and value honor, intelligence, common sense, compassion, literacy
and a sense of humor. I enjoy simple pleasures such as a good book,
playing in the wind (I love storms), camping and snorkeling. But
simple delights can pall and I also need more sophisticated
stimulation - theater, galleries and, most importantly, good
conversation. I don't do boredom well.
I have traveled extensively in the U.S. and have lived and worked
in Asia and Oceania. I can eat with a formal dinner service,
chopsticks or my fingers. I can dress for any occasion, but I
really prefer denim.
I'm back in Vermont now and more or less settled for a few years –
well, probably, I do start feeling footloose at times and miss the
travel – I am a Sagittarian after all. I'd really like to be with
someone who enjoys experiencing new cultures, lifestyles and
perspectives. After spending four years in the tropics, Vermont
winters are not my favorite, but the social/political atmosphere
makes up for it - mostly. I enjoy reading – mostly scifi/fantasy
and mysteries – and can't imagine what life would be like without
good books. Since I got to write and direct a video I've been
hooked and am doing more writing. I've always enjoyed swimming and
learned to scuba dive as well as snorkel while in the tropics - one
thing off my bucket list.
I'm a Brit. Trad. Witch and I take my religion seriously, though
never somberly. While it would be nice to share my life with others
of the same beliefs, it's not essential. I will respect your
spiritual/religious ways (or lack thereof), and trust you to
I think I must have been born polyamorous. Although I came from a
traditional family in a traditional home in a traditional
community, I never wanted that myself. My earliest fantasies always
involved groups both as relationships and sexually. Unfortunately,
I don't just stumble over poly people everywhere –or maybe I do and
just don't know it. So here I am.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
As I still haven't figured out what I want to be when I grow up...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hmmmm... Writing, teaching, counseling, critical thinking, reading
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
In western culture, probably my size. Then that I'm quiet. I've
been told that I'm intimidating, but I don't know why.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Anything by Lois McMaster Bujold, Tanya Huff, Mercedes
Lackey, Tony Hillerman. In general scifi/fantasy and mystery.
Movie: Alien - I don't generally care for the evil monster alien
movies, but the Sigourney Weaver character was the first woman in a
movie that I'd ever been able to identify with. In general I like
science/speculative fiction and fantasy, who-dun-it mysteries (as
opposed to let's shoot everyone in sight mysteries), action and
comic book movie (Superman, Daredevil, Spiderman, etc.). I rarely
like 'chick flicks' or slasher movies - though I love a good
classic vampire/werewolf one.
Music: Symphonic/opera, folk (especially Celtic) alternative, rock,
Celtic rock. Don't like most country, rap or baroque.
Food: Spicy and exotic
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My connection to the gods
A good book
Well, I could survive without them, but what would be the point.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That I'm a private person
You should message me if
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Hmmmmmm... My ideal relationship would begin with 2 men or a single
man or a couple or...
Honorable, intelligent and literate with a sense of perspective and
of 'romance and adventure' is a necessity, as is bisexuality.
Capable of being my equal in public, but submissive in private
would be wonderful and desirous of a polyandrous relationship, even
better. Tall, skinny or gangly and younger is good; long hair is
fantastic. Know the difference between you're and your (and use
them appropriately) and you have my heart. I'm far from perfect and
don't expect perfection in partners. I consider forgiveness to be
vital to any relationship along with respect, a sense of humor and
good sex. I would hope to have overlapping, but not identical
interests. I'd like to be able to learn from my partner(s) and they
I'm not interested in long distance or cyber relationships, one
night stands or occasional sexual encounters, or anyone married
unless both/all spouses are interested. Friends with Benefits are
great, but the friend part comes before the benefits.
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you're emailing me. Use proper spelling, grammar and punctuation
(If English if not your first language, I'm willing to make
allowances) Say a few things that shows you've actually read my
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