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Windress

28 / F / Bisexual / Single

Spring, Texas

Her Details

Last Online
Apr 17
Ethnicity
Native American, White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Ahh, time passes slowly. Or quickly, depending on whether you're on vacation or not. Me? I just got back from a Vacation, and man does it blow.

Anyway, this is me. A frisky gal living in Texas, Masters degree in hand and saddled with a job that, while not exactly emotionally rewarding, at least pays moderately well.

Still the same height and weight and all that good stuff. The horse riding is great for keeping fit, and horses are still my true passion. Or one of them, anyway. I own two horses (Prophet and Carbon), and I compete in Three Day Eventing with Prophet (that'd be the tall skinny chestnut Thoroughbred in the photos). I love riding both English and Western, and I'm a real junkie for jumping. I've also been known to ride all the crazy horses than no one else can stay on. I think it's an addiction to thrill-seeking.

I still love to laugh and find myself in ridiculously improbable situations, in which I think to myself "this is really going to be a story once it's over." Things have slowed down, but 'm trying to return to the adventurous ways of my college days (only with less alcohol and streaking)

I'm a pretty outgoing person and I can chat with just about anyone, which has served me well in so many aspects of my life. That's not to say I need people around me all the time, in fact I rather cherish my time alone. Mostly you can find me either hanging out with horse people or gamer/IT guys, which means I've become immune to all sorts of ribbing. I can bring the smack-talk, if necessary! :P

Despite being out of school, I'm still seeking to expand my knowledge of the world around me, and I have particular interest in marginalized cultures and civil rights, as well as environmental studies. I'm driven by my personal perception of what is fair and just in this society, often comparing societal norms here to other cultures of both the past and the present. I always try to maintain an open mind that doesn't prescribe to a single orthodoxy of beliefs, never wanting to close my heart to the opportunity of learning. I never want to stop expanding my understanding of this miraculous universe. Somehow, someway, I want to make a difference.

I'm also a writer, a musician, and a painter. Some of these passions have fallen victim to neglect during my work as a historian in grad school, but I'm currently trying to revive them in my life. I have a real love for music, ranging in a broad spectrum from Operatic and Showtunes to Oldies and Alternative. I love artistic expression in any form really, be it movies, literature, traditional and contemporary art, and digital art. I'm also a major geek over computers and computer games, Video Games, Comic Books, and tabletop gaming. Yes, oh my god, it's true.

Buddhism and Native American Spirituality are topics of great interest to me, as is the concept of a universal connection with all beings at the most rudimentary level. I tend to pride myself in being hyper aware of my environment, and noticing small gem-like moments that others tend to miss. I hoarde and cherish these small moments, knowing that while other dismiss them, they are tiny miracles in and of themselves, something intensely personal that I feel perhaps only I can see and appreciate in the half second that it occurs. That may be a poor explanation, but I feel it is a sort of self-awareness for one's own immediate being that is difficult for some people to achieve. When something happens that makes me stop and think, "I am in this moment, and no other moment will be as amazing in the same way as this one is, ever again," then I know I am actually living.

Oh, also? I have a rescue Dog named Ziggy who is awesome and fun. She's my little shadow, and she's totally copacetic.

I am Optimistic, Outgoing, and Creative

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What I’m doing with my life
As of August 2008, I completed my M.A. in American Public Studies. Mine was in American Indian Affairs, and my thesis discussed American Indian stereotypes in early western literature and how that has affected popular opinion of Indians in contemporary culture. If you actually care, it's being published soon.

Since then, I have moved here to Spring, TX and have taken a job as a Market Analyst for an environmentally progressive Subsea Construction company that not only improves the situation of Oil & Gas internationally, but also researches alternative types of energy solutions. Such as Tidal power, Wind power, and Hydrate Power. It is awesomeness, we are the future.

I've taken a break from teaching horse riding lessons, but I'm still training a couple horses on the side, plus my own horse. I've been riding for 18 years, and I received my CHA Master Instructor certification about 2 years ago. Honestly, it seems a shame to waste it, but I don't really have the time.

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I’m really good at
My last paragraph in this box bordered on arrogant, ick. I Do tend to succeed at anything I put my mind to, but the list of things I have a natural proclivity towards is probably alot shorter. Let's see.

I think being a Horse Rider is a given. I've been riding for as long as I can remember (records books claim I started when I was six, had been asking for horses since I was 4), and so I've had alot of time to get good at it by now. It helps that I also love it like a fat kid loves cake.

Also, if you haven't noticed, I'm a writer at heart. I love words, I love writing, and I love readng. In the past I've had a book os poetry and short stories published, as well as a children's novel (which is no longer available for purchase, meh). The other side of this coin is that I'm one heck of a public speaker, and how awesome is that?

I'm also moderately well known amongst my friends for knowing all the words to all the songs on ever radio station within an a three state radius. This is because I'm obsessive about music and I love it, and I always always listen to the meaning of the lyrics. No passive listener am I.

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The first things people usually notice about me
Typically, people first notice my physical appearance. I'm a pretty confident girl, and I know I have at least a moderately fit figure, so I'm not afraid to be self assured. I also am pretty outgoing, and don't have a problem talking to complete strangers. My friends sometimes tell me that I have this mutant power that makes people want to tell me their life stories. ha!

People also seem to notice my freckles, which makes sense, because I have alot!

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Oh god, the "Favorites" section. This part is always really hard for me because I like so many things!

Books: historical novels, fantasy novels (Robert Jordan, Terry Goodkind, etc), fiction, short stories. A favorite book by name is "Wicked" by Gregory Maguire. That book is not only an amazing retelling of the Wicked Witch of the West, but also a huge metaphor filled with social commentary about prejudices and religious beliefs in our own society. I also love books about American Indian affairs, like "Black Elk Speaks," by John Neidhart Jr, "Dwellings" by Linda Hogan, and pretty much ANYthing written by Sherman Alexie.

Movies: I love all kinds of movies! I'm willing to give anything a try, also. some of my favs are the X-Men movies, the LOTR movies, the Pirates movies, any musical ever made, RENT, Spiderman movies, Stranger than Fiction, Seabiscuit, all the great 80s flicks, classic films with Fred Astaire and Gene Kelly and Frank Sinatra.

Music: I'm into all kinds of music as well. I even like some rap, though its not my favorite. I was raised on Oldies and country, but I also love alternative, rock, classic rock, melodic rock, eighties, metal, showtunes, etc

Food: Mmm, food. I love to eat, and I love all different kinds of food. My favorites are oriental food, good southern cooking, and anything kind of exotic.

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The six things I could never do without
Minimalism, I like it.

1. My constant companions, the horses and the dog.
2. computer & internet, for my geeky habits
3. good, honest friends and family
4. some form of creative outlet
5. The freedom of thought and expression
6. a connection to the natural world

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Obviously, since my Masters was on American Indians and public media, I spend alot of time thinking about Native American Rights. All civil rights, really. I'm fascinated by the injustices committed by our government throughout history. And by fascinated, I mean disgusted, usually. The more I learn about the world, the more universally I understand the shortcomings of narrow-minded man. Lately, I've also been highly distracted with environmental issues, and this burning need inside me to change the fate of an already failing planet. Lofty, unrealistic goals.

In addition to all that passionate thinking, I also do alot of brainstorming for stories I'm writing. I'm a writer by heart (I have a B.A. Creative Writing), and eventually I'd like to start producing regularly again.

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On a typical Friday night I am
Well, if I'm not preparing for a Horse Show, then I'm most likely hanging with the boys, playing some sort of video game or computer game. The typical choice lately has been Left 4 Dead 2, some variant of Rock Band (I am killer at this), or the new Spiderman: Shattered Dimensions game.

I know that sounds terribly low-key, but I'm not huge on going out and getting plastered every weekend. However, when I do go out, I make sure to have Fun!

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
hm... well, I guess something that most people don't notice about me is that for all my vivacity and outgoing behavior, I'm really a very vulnerable person who can be easily hurt by insensitive actions from others. People tend to think that nothing bothers me, but really, I care very much about other's opinions.

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I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
you're an honest, confident person who wants to share not only a relationship, but also a friendship with another person.

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