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31 Tampa, FL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Apr 12
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Strictly vegan
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
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INFJ, (according to 16personalities.)

Full-time student, an English major, who is looking to meet and become more social with women. Though I typically enjoy spending a lot of time alone I am interested in everything from conversation, to coffee, even to dates and sex.

I like, scratch that. I love women, and yes all women, (I'm only sexually attracted to most though). I especially like women who are feminists, but the kinds of feminists that don't utterly disregard femininity, (the ones that don't embrace their womanhood while supposedly fighting for it have always seemed weird to me). If you wear a dress you are most likely on my radar. I live women that wear dresses.

I will steal all of your time if you let me. I have been called a time thief. If we're talking or hanging out I will keep you there for hours, or if we're lying in bed alternating between sex and sleep I will most assuredly steal that day from you.

I am very shy, until you get to know me then I usually do a 180.
I don't care for denim.
What I’m doing with my life
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Going to school for creative writing, (currently living on campus), and attending Soccer games. Want to get into all facets of writing: video game writing, screen writing, stage-plays, poetry, novel writing, writing articles, and graphic novels. My focus is poetry.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Fat, hairy, have blue eyes, big cheeks, and usually something interesting on my T-shirt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Solaris, I am legend, Anerican Gods, Name of the Wind, Old man's war, The forever war, Ocean at the end of the lane, The vampire Lestat, Blue remembered Earth, Ready player one, Dune, Snowcrash, Pattern recognition, hamlet, The Road, and more.

Poetry: Li-Young Lee, Charles Wright, Alexis Orgera, John A. Nieves, Michael Hettich, Kim Addonizio, some Allen Ginsberg, and some William Burroughs, some Gary Snyder. I pick up The Poetry Foundations Poetry Magazine and Poetry East's magazine regularly.

Movies: Solaris (1972), Alien, Terminator & Terminator 2, The Saltin Sea, Hamlet ( Ethan Hawke), Closer, Gattaca, Escape from New York, Planet of the Apes (original 5), Metropolis, Citizen Kane, M, The fountain, Cool hand Luke, Children of men, Captain America, Chinatown, and more.

TV shows: 1st season of The Walking Dead, The first 4 seasons of Lost, Adventure Time, Regular Show, The venture bros, Ren & Stimpy, Ghost in the Shell, Blood+, Code Geass, Terminator: the Sarah Conor chronicles, the original twilight zone, Jerhico, Frisky Dingo, Aqua Teen Hunger Force, Community, X-Files, Star Trek (TnG, DS9, Voyager), and more.

Music: ...And You Will Know Us By The Trail Of Dead, Squarepusher, Iggy Pop, Blue Sky Black Deatg, Circle Takes The Square, Atari Teenage Riot, Saul Williams, Sage Francis, Father John Misty, Black Rebel Motorcycle Club, The Deftones, Leonard Cohen, Straylight Run, Hank Mobley, Miles Davis, John Zorn, Marc Ribot, Tool, Kraftwerk, Gary Numan, Bloody beetroots, The Black Keys, And so much more.

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on poetry while at Starbucks downing coffee, or trying to read...alone, or at a party (usually at my apt), or maybe (more rare nowadays though) at a concert.
You should message me if
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Our match % is somewhat decent.
You'd like to come over and spend the night, and you'd like to feel my arms around you.
You actually understand what an introvert is.
You like poetry. Seriously, you actually like poetry, (not just the idea of it.)
You have opinions, thought out opinions that are somewhat educated/informed.
You know something that I forgot to add here.