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43 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 28–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 25
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I like to be surprised;

Good writer/bad speller;

I tell a great duck story;

ENTJ on the Meyers-Briggs type indicator;

I make a crawfish ettouffe that will curl your toes;

I once coerced a mariachi band into playing Pink Floyd;

Will try anything once; this occasionally leads to problems;

I'm tactile and affectionate: hands in a woman’s hair is a remarkably under appreciated sensual experiences;

I generally appreciate quality in whatever forum, i.e. I don't like country music, but I can appreciate Patsy Cline; transcendence shows;

I’m an actual gentleman;

I love the word conundrum.

"Do not be too moral. You may cheat yourself out of much life so. Aim above morality. Be not simply good; be good for something."

Wish I had said that

Facts can be better than narrative.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
What am I doing with my life? Seriously are you my mother?

I fall down but invariable get back up.
I treat people with civility and respect
I am a font of information: before there was the Internet, there was me
I work for myself…going on 8 years…highly recommended
I laugh at myself
I laugh at you
I laugh with you laughing at me or me laughing at you or us laughing…
I love my mother
I just don’t like her asking what I'm doing with my life
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking Thanksgiving dinner
Cooking anything
Graciously telling people that they are being assholes
Opening doors
Reading restaurant menus in many langauges
Keeping my head while those about me are losing theirs (thanks Rudyard!)
Being considerate (a highly underrated trait)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like all 4 way too much to list all my favorites so here's a representative sample...5 apiece:

Books: Handling Sin, The Killer Angels, The Sun Also Rises, The Tipping Point and All the Pretty Horses

Movies: Miller’s Crossing, The Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Good Fellas, Casablanca, and The Great Escape.

Music: Wilco, The Black Keys, Ryan Adams, Miles Davis and oh, I don’t know, Mozart! I like a lot of different types of music ;)

Food: a freshly schucked oyster, a perfectly medium rare porterhouse, spinach soufflé, a porcini omelet and my chipotle macaroni and cheese!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What’s for dinner?
That I have more computing power in my pocket than went up on the first moon mission.
Do I have time for the gym before the next conference call?
Is dryer lint recyclable?
The remarkable, confounding, incomparable, and wonderful maelstrom that is your gender
The day to day craziness that keeps me jumping around like a one legged man in an ass-kicking contest.
Lots of stuff really.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm a big happy hour fan. Fridays I'm usually a bit tired from the work week so a drink with friends and then an early dinner works out just perfectly.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am disturbed by the casual disposable nature of online dating on OK Cupid and yet oddly compelled by it at the same time