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59 M Appleton, WI

My Details

Last Online
Aug 24
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Dear reader, I like dancing, traveling, and conversations on philosophical topics. Dance has been my special hobby, and I am good at it. I enjoy introducing people to dance. I am a romantic.
As a young man I spent ten years working in tough neighborhoods of Chicago.
Also I was a counselor, student of world religions and a practical paid philosopher. I am a liberal, and a card-carrying democrat. I also know I need to practice meditation more routinely than I do.
I like to end with a revised short poem by Robert Browning.

Grow old with me!
The Best is yet to be,
The last of life, for which the first was made;
Youth shows but half;
trust in God: who sees all
be not afraid!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a desire to see more of the world so recently I have been studying and working in the travel industry. This has been a big career change for me. It is worth it if I can get to the countries on my bucket list. And learn how to sell. I have got a lot to learn about selling and closing the deal.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
dancing singing, public speaking, geography and history. This gives me an edge in "Trivial Pursuits." I working at getting better at "Meaningful Pursuits". I am very flexible, physically from Yoga practice.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My pale blue eyes, honest open face and floppy blond hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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In movies my favorites have specific scenes:
"Casablanca" especially the singing of Marseillaise scene,
"Scent of a Woman": the Major (Al Puchino) dances a Tango and latter, at the grand conclusion speaks in defense of the young man; "To Kill a Mockingbird" when Scout stops a lynching.
In Music I like what-ever is playing on Public Radio. I like Michael Buble, Louis Armstrong, Ella Fitzgeral, R&B, "Pete" Seeger, Klezmer and Gypsy music, Classical (Bach, Beethoven, Chopin, Dvořák, Eastern Orthodox and Tibetan chant, George Harrison, Crosby Stills, Nash and Young.
I like and am a faithful contributing member of Public Radio and TV. I enjoy their programs: Historic dramas, documentaries (Front Line), Nature.
In food, I am also eclectic; tasting new favor combinations
In books I read a lot in psychology, history and Philosophy. I like stories where the little guy triumphs over adversity. I read philosophy because I seek wisdom. and Love. Currently reading about the last days of the Inca Empire, book about salesmanship, and Mircea Eliade's Autobiography.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Faith expressed in actions,
story telling,
wisdom of gratitude.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How can I get you to not only answer my messages, but commit to meeting together. I spend a lot of time answering and editing my answers to questions on this dating site. I have answered maybe too many questions. Getting some what flip with some. That's why I felt the need to offer an explanation for the forced options of multiple choice. Some were intrusive and I should have ignored them but I wanted to exhaust the website of all questions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing, Singing, attending social events.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am very interested in getting to know you, and this is a little bit scary for me. I hope we can have fun and I will let go of all expectations or As much as possible.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 51–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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want to dance, or sing, or share your wisdom.