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35 M Victoria, British Columbia, CA

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Last Online
Yesterday – 11:24pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
A little extra
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
What I can tell you is that I am a friendly, hard working guy who almost always has a smile of some sort pasted to my face. I love the learning new things and getting the chance to learn from the people and world around me. I'm playful and relaxed, taking life in stride but definitely not just gliding along without direction. I like to see it more as riding a bike through traffic, obstacles and dangers everywhere but also complete freedom, excitement and adventure as I decide for myself what direction the world will take me and how fast I plan on getting there. ^_^

I should note that I see no point in lying, or the harsh manipulations that so many people these days seem to consider common place. If I'm going to have a person in my life its' because I respect them and see and value in their friendship. Why taint that with lies. Also, lying requires that you have to remember the lie told. I really don't have the memory for that kind of useless social manipulation.

(Note: I will however exaggerate the hell out of a story for comedic value, and it will be plenty obvious when I do.)

Extraverted Sensing Feeling Perceiver (ESFP) personality commonly referred to as "The Performer".

You love to be around people, entertaining and bringing them (and you) as much love, laughter, and enthusiasm as you can. As the Performer, you crave the spotlight, and you enjoy socializing with all the people you can pack into your ever-expanding circle of fun. The one thing that makes you sad is being alone, but fortunately for you, you are not alone very often. For the true Performer, life is a nonstop party.

ESFP when in love:
There are no limits to your expressions of love, tenderness, and sexual intimacy. Being with your lover can easily turn into an around-the-clock extravaganza of food, drink, high jinks, passionate lovemaking, exotic trips, and anything else you can cram into a day. Whether you are partying or relaxing, you always want to maintain a feeling of harmony between you and your mate. Because you loathe conflict, you may become extremely uncomfortable if you fight with your partner. If you feel there is too much disharmony in your relationship, you may pack your bags unexpectedly, leaving your ex-mate pondering what went wrong. Despite occasional setbacks in matters of love, you rarely get down for long - to you, love is an endless outpouring of fun and affection. You are indeed the love tonic that many people have been searching for all their lives.

ESFP where to meet:
Where can you meet a Performer? “Let’s dance!” You guessed it: the Performer can be found holding court wherever there are lights, action, music, and people. Try bars, swing dance clubs, comedy clubs, restaurants, nightclubs, dance classes, parties, gambling meccas (Las Vegas and Atlantic City), theaters (many actors are Performers), and acting classes at your local community college.
What I’m doing with my life
Living. Yeah that doesn't sound like much but I see far too many people that do. I work as an RCA because I love the people I help, I train martial arts because I know I can push myself to be something more, I write because I love to feel creative, and I smile because I'm enjoying every moment of it all.
I’m really good at
- Finding Obscure things
- Adapting to my environment
- Telling Humorous Anedotes
- Kissing... or so I'm told ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
My height and my stature is usually the first thing noticed, then my eyes. Supposedly my multicolored green eyes are very noticable.
Lately the first thing people seem to notice is my curly hair. I've been getting compliments on it like crazy lately. I blame the humidity :P
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: (I tend to find writers that I like and stick to them)
Charlie Huston books (Dangerous Man, Already dead...)
Kelly Armstrong's Books (Frostbitten, Stolen...)
Laurell K. Hamilton's Books (Lunatic Cafe, Incubus Dreams...)
Master of Whitestorm by Janny Wurts
Crooked Little Vein by Warren Ellis
Transmetropolitan by Warren Ellis
Pretty Much Everything I can find by Warren Ellis :P

Top 5 Movies:
Fight Club
True Romance
The Long Kiss Goodnight
Queen of the Damned
The Crow

Dr. Who (big time Whovian household)
The BBC (pretty much the majority of it :P )
Lost Girl

Pretty much everything but country. I leave myself open to finding new music, but music that moves me and gets my mind and body grooving cannot be passed by.
The six things I could never do without
Friends & Family
My Laptop
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Stories that I'm working on, and the world around me. I'm always trying to pay attention to people and their reaction to the world around them. I find there is so much to learn, I just have to pay attention to the world around me.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm usually hanging out with friends and relaxing before work. I work night shift every week-end.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm "Open" to the world around me and prefer to be judged for being me, and not my sexuality. This is described as being Pansexual, but again I'm not a huge fan of being defined as anything more than just open to what to the Universe brings into my life. Gender means nothing to me. I like who I like regardless of there gender identity.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
- You want to chat with someone who is a loyal friend and all around goofy guy to have around. I'm hard working and very accepting of the people in my life. ^_^