I'm currently in a non-monogamous relationship, with a woman that I love dearly. She is monogamous, but due to factors within the relationship I currently am not. I'm not looking to just run around and date endlessly, more to find a special caring someone that can understand the situation (no drama) and accept the loving person that I am.
I should note that I also see no point in lying, or the harsh manipulations that so many people these days seem to consider common place. If I'm going to have a person in my life its' because I respect them and see and value in their friendship. Why taint that with lies. Also, lying requires that you have to remember the lie told. I really don't have the memory for that kind of useless social manipulation.
(Note: I will however exaggerate the hell out of a story for comedic value, and it will be plenty obvious when I do.)
Extraverted Sensing Feeling Perceiver (ESFP) personality commonly referred to as "The Performer".
You love to be around people, entertaining and bringing them (and you) as much love, laughter, and enthusiasm as you can. As the Performer, you crave the spotlight, and you enjoy socializing with all the people you can pack into your ever-expanding circle of fun. The one thing that makes you sad is being alone, but fortunately for you, you are not alone very often. For the true Performer, life is a nonstop party.
ESFP when in love:
There are no limits to your expressions of love, tenderness, and sexual intimacy. Being with your lover can easily turn into an around-the-clock extravaganza of food, drink, high jinks, passionate lovemaking, exotic trips, and anything else you can cram into a day. Whether you are partying or relaxing, you always want to maintain a feeling of harmony between you and your mate. Because you loathe conflict, you may become extremely uncomfortable if you fight with your partner. If you feel there is too much disharmony in your relationship, you may pack your bags unexpectedly, leaving your ex-mate pondering what went wrong. Despite occasional setbacks in matters of love, you rarely get down for long - to you, love is an endless outpouring of fun and affection. You are indeed the love tonic that many people have been searching for all their lives.
ESFP where to meet:
Where can you meet a Performer? “Let’s dance!” You guessed it: the Performer can be found holding court wherever there are lights, action, music, and people. Try bars, swing dance clubs, comedy clubs, restaurants, nightclubs, dance classes, parties, gambling meccas (Las Vegas and Atlantic City), theaters (many actors are Performers), and acting classes at your local community college.