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48 M Alameda, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 24
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am an Artist/ Musician ideally seeking another creative type to challenge me. I am kind, good natured,sweet, loving, loyal to my friends and woe to my enemies...just kidding. I enjoy photography, good rambling conversation and anything to do with art and music.
What I’m doing with my life
At an interesting point where old careers go to die and new ones are born. Self employed hustling my own creations with some help from friends, researching galleries and doing graphics for record labels.Also teaching myself electronic music from the ground up.
UPDATE JUNE 2014...Met a JOYOUS PARTNER quite by happy accident right here on okcupid! we have been building something Beautiful since May, full of honesty, communication and ecstatic sensuality....DONT GIVE UP SEEKERS! and pay attention to those high percentage matches! LIFE CAN CHANGE at any moment.
I’m really good at
Drawing,painting,photography,ambient music production, gardening,procrastination, ennui,cat juggling,woodworking,strip scrabble,defending outmoded formats, blinking while being photographed.
The first things people usually notice about me
I wear a lot of black...i dont know, this is a weird one, so subjective...I am not vain.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: memory and Dream by Charles DeLint. War for the Oaks by Emma Bull. Imajica by Clive Barker. Movies: Naked Lunch,Solaris, Howls moving castle,Wizards.Shows: Fringe, Grimm, True Blood...all netflix, cancelled cable....oh and Game of Thrones. Music: sigur Ros,just saw them play live in s.f.(4-2013), I would guarantee 90 percent of my music collection though would be unknown to opportunivore; whatever is available at the time;artists dont eat!
The six things I could never do without
Electricity, hot running water, my cozy bed, guitars,amps,effects,....wait, that's all I get?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The fact that we are on a ball of rock hurtling through space at thousands of miles per hour on a giant 3-dimensional pool table and we worry about finding true love....kind of sweet and insane at the same time
On a typical Friday night I am
you don't want to know, it's boring; that's why i'm here....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Lots of stories to tell, but a friend tells me to share them maybe.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 38–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
if you are an artist or musician or just into the arts, always learning, curious, adventurous, love the weirder aspects of life, have a bizarre sense of humor.