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44 M Bend, OR

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6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has cats

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My self-summary
When you think of me, think of a superhero, but without the superpowers. Um, no cape...and I really don't have any tights either. I really haven't done any crimefighting recently either, now that I think of it. But, other then that, yeah, I'm a superhero. Oh, wait, i don't have a cool name either. Drat, I will work on that one. Okay, maybe a knight in shinning armor? Okay, sure, I don't have the armor either....but I do have a sword on my there. HAH. Okay, if I would describe myself as a superhero w/o the powers and such, then I should be looking for...a damsel in distress? Nope...I want another, make that super-heroine. I want to have some one that I can team up with and experience all of life with, but someone who has their own life also. Sure we may not really fight crime, but bathroom grime can be just as bad. You use your Lysol ray, and I'll use my Rag of Cleanliness(TM). What a team we would be. And after a hard days work fighting grime, we could go out on the town and celebrate, know that we have made the world a better place, if just for a day.

Okay, as for the more normal stuff, I am in many ways an old school gentleman. I grew up thinking that was the way all men were. I am honest, loyal, and considerate. I am pretty bright, but never used my intelligence to get ahead. As soon as my first little girl was on the way, I got very serious about life and now own my own house, put some into savings each month and have a career that pays the bills.

My girls come first, btw. I have them half the time, so plenty of 'me' time right now, but no wicked stepmothers allowed.

I am a gamer. I haven't been for years while I was married, but it is who I am. Not really a console gamer, but games that make you think. You don't have to be a gamer, but it would be a plus. I am also a Blazer fan. So far this year, it's good to be a Blazers fan :) I like random road trips, but they have been in short supply w/ 2 little girls.

What I am looking for is really my partner in crime. We don't have to match up on everything, and it is probably best if we don't. I would like to learn from you, and experience new things. Really, I just want someone that 'Gets Me'. I feel pretty Unique, but then again, doesn't everyone? I would like someone to challenge me intellectually. I am never wrong....until you prove me wrong. Then I am thankful that you corrected me :)

I will probably change this soon, as this is just a bit of stream of consciousness, and not a well crafted piece that will have women swooning to email me :) I get enough emails, I want ones from women I can make some solid connections with.....or I would settle for just making some new friends that I have some things in common with.

I am a pretty classic INTJ. You would have a pretty good idea about my personality if you look it up.

Even if you don't write me, good luck in finding what you are looking for :)
What I’m doing with my life
I am getting back to being me. An upgraded me, with new features.

I kinda want to take over the world and shake some sense into some of the leaders out there, but that is on the back burner now. I need to get a Giant Frickken Laser first.
I’m really good at
Pretty much most anything I put my mind to. Er, well maybe not everything, I mean, I AM on a dating site right?

If you want specifics, I am very good at figuring things out. People are the hardest, but I am working in it :-P
The first things people usually notice about me
I get alot of comments on my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read mainly Sci Fi/Fantasy, with more educational material thrown in once in a while to keep my mind at least a little sharp :)

I went through a quantum physics phase awhile ago. Ended up reading 3-4 books on it before I started to 'get it' Oh, it is still beyond my firm grasp, but I at least have the 'feel' for it now.

I love music, but I am horrible on band and song names. I am not a musical person, but love how music can help channel you emotions. I like alot of the 90's/00's stuff. Don't really like country, and rap is hit or miss. Some I love, others I can do without. Some band names that come to mind Violent Femmes, Van Haled, Limp Bizkit, Foo Fighters, Johnny Cash and a ton more I am not thinking of.
The six things I could never do without
I hate these questions. Really, at this point, there is nothing I could not live without, besides my two little girls.

I am not very big on material dependence, or emotional dependence. I admit though that when I fall for someone, that kind of changes quite a bit. But, even then, it is not so much 'can't live without' as much as 'gives life more meaning'
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Well, right now I am thinking alot about a card game I am developing. Not sure if it will go anywhere, but if nothing else the mental focus and problem solving is good for me. I woul LOVE to find someone to bounce ideas off of and get some fresh input. The theme of the game if Evil Masterminds competing to rule the world. I would like to have a good dose of humor in it.

I was inspired to make the game because I would be an excellent Evil Mastermind....if I were just evil. :P
On a typical Friday night I am
On Friday Nights I do a slumber party with my two little girls. They pick out a movie and we make popcorn and pull out the bed from the couch. I know more about Fairies and Princesses then any man should, and I love every minute of it :)

If I do not have the girls, I could be out with friends at a movie, playing games or maybe just downtown Bend getting some dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a pretty open book. I am very honest, and don't hide anything.

I am not legally divorced, but just separated. My Ex moved out November 2013, but we have not filed for divorce for strictly financial reasons (mainly insurance).
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 33–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you are bored and want to strike up a conversion, especially if its an odd topic.

If you like watching shows like Game of Thrones or the Office, and want someone to watch the newest episode, or try out a new series on Netflix.

You think I am hot and/or cool and want to inflate my ego.

You want a free shrink or masseuse.

You want to know why I did a random drive by message to you. I don't really expect responses, just saying what's on my mind.

On a somewhat sour note, please do not message me for anything besides friendship if you have cheated in the past. I am sure people can change, but I am done with people I can not trust. bout if you just want to :-P