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44 / M / Straight / Single
- Last Online
- Today – 6:43pm
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m).
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
- Leo and it’s fun to think about
- Dropped out of college/university
- Clerical / Administrative
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Has cats
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I kinda want to take over the world and shake some sense into some of the leaders out there, but that is on the back burner now. I need to get a Giant Frickken Laser first.
If you want specifics, I am very good at figuring things out. People are the hardest, but I am working in it :-P
I went through a quantum physics phase awhile ago. Ended up reading 3-4 books on it before I started to 'get it' Oh, it is still beyond my firm grasp, but I at least have the 'feel' for it now.
I love music, but I am horrible on band and song names. I am not a musical person, but love how music can help channel you emotions. I like alot of the 90's/00's stuff. Don't really like country, and rap is hit or miss. Some I love, others I can do without. Some band names that come to mind Violent Femmes, Van Haled, Limp Bizkit, Foo Fighters, Johnny Cash and a ton more I am not thinking of.
I am not very big on material dependence, or emotional dependence. I admit though that when I fall for someone, that kind of changes quite a bit. But, even then, it is not so much 'can't live without' as much as 'gives life more meaning'
My theme song could be Foo Fighters "All My Life" because that is exactly how I feel about life. Always searching for something, but never have quite found what I am looking for.
Twice in my life I thought I may have found it. The first time, she was married...and I never let her know I had feeling for her. I have too much honor to disrupt a marriage. The second time, I did marry her...but years later found out that she was still searching, and I was not the one for her. I never want to be someone's second choice.
Recently, one of my friends I met on her found her "One" so it gives me some hope. Like me, she is very picky, and had almost given up hope. She also had met lots of people, some good people...but none that filled that void until recently.
The more logical side of me thinks that I just need to fill the void myself, and find my best friend to share my life with. The hopeless romantic wants to hold out for "the One".
So....is "The One" real? Or just a fantasy I have developed?
I also spend lots of time pondering how Eveything works and fits together. I tend to be a Big Picture Problem solver. I am an INTJ....and pretty close to textbook as far as the personality profile is. Well....text book INTJ mixed w/ hopeless romantic.
If I do not have the girls, I could be out with friends at a movie, playing games or maybe just downtown Bend getting some dinner.
- Straight girls only
- Ages 30–48
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
If you like watching shows like Game of Thrones or the Office, and want someone to watch the newest episode, or try out a new series on Netflix.
You think I am hot and/or cool and want to inflate my ego.
You want a free shrink or masseuse.
You want to know why I did a random drive by message to you. I don't really expect responses, just saying what's on my mind.
Or...how bout if you just want to :-P