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38 Sheboygan, WI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:13pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Not at all
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Irish (Fluently), Swahili (Okay), Other (Fluently), Tagalog (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a shallow, conceited, arrogant prick. I can also be the most sincere, thoughtful, gentleman you meet. I believe life is all about taking chances and meeting new people, experiencing new things, and having your perceptions altered. People think they have a "type." People think I have a "type." I prefer not to categorize people.

If you're the type who just looks at pictures to decide who you will talk to, that's great; I can be just as one-dimensional as you. If you actually read profiles that's cool, too; I love conversation. Please don't waste my time if you're still "figuring out what you want" or any of that BS. You need to know you want me and be up front if you don't. I don't respond to games. I'm mature enough to walk away and I hope you are, too.
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently I am in school studying law. I'm also the lead singer in a punk band, and practice 420 daily. Since I was smart enough to serve in the military my schooling is paid for.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at entertaining people be it by music, or comedy. I'm also a good listener and good at figuring out problems. I enjoy others company and being around people. I also have absolutely no stage fright. I'm the guy you can take to karaoke and turn heads, not because it's funny to watch me sing, but because I CAN sing and I sing well.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm funny, I can make you laugh if your having a bad day! If you see me in public don't be afraid to talk to me!! Unless I am in the middle of singing a set then I will kindly ask you to wait until I am done.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything by John Grisham or Tim Zahn. But I'll read damn near anything and really do enjoy a good book. As far as movies. I'll Admit it I am a Huge Star Wars fan!! I loved all 6 of them and am pretty excited that there coming out in 3-D!!! I enjoyed the Pirates of the Caribbean series and anything mid-evil.

When it comes to Music I am a huge Punk rock fan, performer and listener. Punk is more then just a music choice, it's a lifestyle and attitude choice and I fit that bill. I don't take shit from anybody!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1.) My Family
2.) Music
3.) My computer
4.) My Car
5.) Freedom of speech
6.) love
7.) taco's
8.) Hope
9.) Compassion
10) Empathy
11.) Friendship
12.) Forgiveness

I can't do without many things actually. To narrow it down to just 6 is pretty bland!!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music!! What song should I write next? Where will the next gig be at? How can I improve? I also think a lot about how this world is so drastically changing and I am not so sure it's for the better. I think about my Kids a lot and how there growing really fast.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I guess I don't have any typical Friday nights. I could be playing a gig with one of my band. Or having band practice. I could be at home watching a movie with the kids. I could be writing music. It really all depends on whats going on.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My wife and I are swingers and we are pretty much open. So if you would like to go on a date or just hang out. It's OK with my wife. Honestly you can ask her yourself!! We just do not subscribe to the monogamous relationship aspect. This is NOT to say we do not love each other very much. We just enjoy sex with others!! But were not on here looking for people to screw. Were looking for some decent friends who understand us. We get it, people can be intimidated by the "swinging" things. Don't worry about it, we don't go around imposing our lifestyle on people.

So here is the situation, I enjoy having sex. A lot of sex. With a variety of people. No strings sex is great, we both get what we want and don't have to worry about all the crap that goes with a long term relationship. If your on here, chances are you need to get laid. That's where we can help each other.
You should message me if
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You are not some special gem of a woman that's just picky and hasn't found the right guy yet. Chances are you're a little more than 'a few extra pounds' over weight, are not very attractive, have kids or have some sort of abrasive character trait that has rendered you un-fuckable by every other guy you've come across in real life. If neither of these are the case then congratulations you are here for the same reason I am - to get laid. (Unless you are some unfortunate combination of more than one of those things)

This does not give you the right to type out an entire 'about me' section with the type of guys who cannot message you (ie. if you're short don't message me, if you're black don't message me, if you're just looking for sex don't message me) listen up girls, you are on OkCupid not GQ's most eligible bachelorette list - take what ever you can get.

I know you are 'fun and 'outgoing', I also know that you 'like to have a good time and stay active' and that 'you never really know what to write in these little boxes' (Because you're so fucking fascinating words cannot even begin to describe you in all your glory)... No girl on earth tries to attract potential mates with "I like to stay home and play WoW while I kill the batteries in my big purple dildo thinking of that guy on the bus who brushed up against my arm"... Try coming up with something original, something REAL... And no song lyrics are not original, nor is talking about yourself in 3rd person or telling everybody how unique and different you are. You are a woman, there are over 3 billion of you on earth what makes you unique?

Now if you're still reading this and you want me to come over to your place, smoke it up and get laid, then send me a message. Am I going to bang you and never talk to you again? Maybe. Are you ever gonna call me again? Maybe, we'll see how it goes. I'm not saying it won't turn into something more but let's get serious, why go through the games and bullshit when we're both playing for the same end game.