Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am looking for friends. I am sapiosexual... Period.
Since I live in the country now, once I use 10 GB of data! My
internet provider throttles my service so much it is worse than
dial-up. If I do not answer you right away it could be one of two
things: my servce is throttled and I cannot see your message until
it refreshes, or I don't want to.
I am not tolerant of evangelicals of any faith or non-faith. If you
are super-serious about religion or the lack of it, where it is a
major topic of conversation then we are probably not going to get
along. I will not tolerate proselytizing at all either toward me or
others. If you can keep your religious devotion to yourself, I am
okay with that. I will do the same. To each their own.
Read my profile. If you don't, I can tell. Appearances ARE
important but not to the exclusion of common interests - period.
And um... No granny chasers. It does not appeal to me what-so-ever.
I want a man with a man's experiences. That does not imply that I
want an old man, however - someone so fixed in their lifestyle
there is no room for changes or new experiences... Someone waiting
to die. Nope. I am doing fine as I am, but it would be nice to
enhance it with a friend of some sort... Who is not a kid but is
also not old. Who is juuuuust right.
I would prefer a non-user of tobacco.
I am 5'4", brownish-blonde hair with slight gray, average build
(chubbing up a bit) and physically active. I appreciate men who are
concerned about their appearance.
I am a liberal, non-theist who loathes drama. I enjoy rational
exchanges of ideas but not irrational or petty argument. I find the
humor in most situations. I am decidedly NOT mainstream. I am also
a geek and enjoy learning. I would enjoy someone who appreciates
I do not like extremes or militants. Have your causes, but don't
require my involvement.
Age is a mind-set. I am not irresponsible, but I am also not old. I
don't date men who consider themselves old no matter what date is
on your birth certificate.
I have three yappy dogs that are deal breakers. Must like dogs.
What I’m doing with my life
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Running my own small service business.
Self study in a variety of topics such as history, art history and
Moving date: April 12th! Upgrading a small plot of rural land for
move toward more sustainable living.
UPDATE: I have moved to and spent the summer on my land. A few
setbacks, but I thoroughly enjoy life closer to nature.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not accepting that a thing "cannot be done".
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am very direct which can be interpreted as blunt especially in
the South. Although I have been in Virginia for quite a while now,
I am not very good at the whole 'southern' thing. I don't get the
whole 'yes ma'am' thing at all. I either over ma'am or forget it
entirely. I am not very good with 'small talk'. I am INTJ. I am
often perceived as standoffish or even arrogant, I don't feel that
is true, but sometimes I am just socially awkward especially if my
mind is elsewhere.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: mostly nonfiction - Richard Dawkins (sums that up nicely),
philosophy, history (historical fiction), science...
I don't watch much television at all except maybe South Park,
Sherlock and Downton Abbey. I like historical documentaries.
Depending on my mood, anything from classical to classic rock -
sans country. Not much for bluegrass either.
I like ethnic foods like Thai and Greek.
Renaissance, Rococo, vanitas and Baroque art to name a few. I also
like Jan Steen. Favorite vacations involve art museums.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Quality friendships - thinking people
My three dogs - min pin, chihuahua and toy rat terrier
Rational thought if that is possible
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The nature of the universe.
Epistomology and metaphysics.
What civilization is coming to.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home reading.
Being tired from the ZZZzzzzzzzzzzzz...........
You should message me if
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You are open-minded about such things as gay marriage and that if
there is a god, god is unknowable or at least are non-evangelical.
If you like to try new things. If you are a life-long learner. Are
willing to try new things.
Who are you looking for?
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