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58 F Appomattox, VA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 50–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:35am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Working on university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
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I am not tolerant of evangelicals.

Read my profile. If you don't, I can tell. Appearances ARE important but not to the exclusion of common interests - period. And um... No granny chasers. It does not appeal to me what-so-ever. I want a man with a man's experiences. That does not imply that I want an old man, however - someone so fixed in their lifestyle there is no room for changes or new experiences... Someone waiting to die. Nope. I am doing fine as I am, but it would be nice to enhance it with a partner of some sort... Who is not a kid but is also not old.

I would prefer a non-user of tobacco.


I am 5'4", brownish-blonde hair with slight gray, average build (chubbing up a bit) and physically active.

I am a liberal, non-theist who loathes drama. I enjoy rational exchanges of ideas but not irrational or petty argument. I find the humor in most situations. I am decidedly NOT mainstream.

I do not like extremes.

Age is a mind-set. I am not irresponsible, but I am also not old.

I have three yappy dogs that are deal breakers. Must love dogs.
What I’m doing with my life
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Running my own small service business.
Self study in a variety of topics such as history, art history and philosophy.
Moving date: April 12th! Upgrading a small plot of rural land for move toward more sustainable living.

UPDATE: I have moved to and spent the summer on my land. A few setbacks, but I thoroughly enjoy life closer to nature.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not accepting that a thing "cannot be done".
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am very direct which can be interpreted as blunt especially in the South. Although I have been in Virginia for quite a while now, I am not very good at the whole 'southern' thing. I don't get the whole 'yes ma'am' thing at all. I either over ma'am or forget it entirely. I am not very good with 'small talk'. I am INTJ. I am often perceived as standoffish or even arrogant, I don't feel that is true, but sometimes I am just socially awkward especially if my mind is elsewhere.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: mostly nonfiction - Richard Dawkins (sums that up nicely), philosophy, history (historical fiction), science...

I don't watch much television at all except maybe South Park, Sherlock and Downton Abbey. I like historical documentaries.

Depending on my mood, anything from classical to classic rock - sans country. Not much for bluegrass either.

I like ethnic foods like Thai and Greek.

Renaissance, Rococo, vanitas and Baroque art to name a few. I also like Jan Steen. Favorite vacations involve art museums.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Quality friendships - thinking people
My three dogs - min pin, chihuahua and toy rat terrier
Art museums
Rational thought if that is possible
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The nature of the universe.
Epistomology and metaphysics.
What civilization is coming to.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home reading.
Being tired from the ZZZzzzzzzzzzzzz...........
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am an open book.
You should message me if
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You are open-minded about such things as gay marriage and that if there is a god, god is unknowable or at least are non-evangelical. If you like to try new things. If you are a life-long learner. Are willing to try new things.