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58 F Appomattox, VA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 18
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly other
When drinking
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Working on university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
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I am not tolerant of evangelicals.

I leave my computer up and walk away from it continually! Don't be offended if I don't answer your chat.

As for the OkCupid questions: I am not answering questions that cannot be answered with a simple yes/no. Most of the questions posed are relative to the particular situation and cannot be adequately answered. Some questions are actually deal breakers.

I don't care for chivalry. It isn't a contest and I would rather dispense with this as an expectation altogether.


I am 5'4", brownish-blonde hair with slight gray, average build (chubbing up a bit) and physically active.

I am a liberal, non-theist who loathes drama. I enjoy rational exchanges of ideas but not irrational or petty argument. I find the humor in most situations. I am decidedly NOT mainstream.

I do not like extremes.

Age is a mind-set. I am not irresponsible, but I am also not old.

I have three yappy dogs that are deal breakers. Must love dogs.
What I’m doing with my life
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Running my own small service business.
Self study in a variety of topics such as history, art history and philosophy.
Moving date: April 12th! Upgrading a small plot of rural land for move toward more sustainable living.

UPDATE: May 6 th. This is taking WAY longer than I anticipated. Looks like it could be another month before I get moved in.

'Nother Update: May 26th. Waiting on Southside electric to run their part from the pole and having the last part of the septic plumbing hooked up. This is getting quite old.

Sneaked and stayed there over the weekend with jugs of water, a flashlight, a camping toilet and three dogs. Watched three does outside my kitchen window and the stars lying on my back deck. There is something about a return to nature that is good for emotional health. I started to say good for the 'soul' but I would not wish to mislead anyone with my use of metaphor.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not accepting that a thing "cannot be done".
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am very direct which can be interpreted as blunt especially in the South. Although I have been in Virginia for quite a while now, I am not very good at the whole 'southern' thing. I don't get the whole 'yes ma'am' thing at all. I either over ma'am or forget it entirely. I am not very good with 'small talk'. I am INTJ. I am often perceived as standoffish or even arrogant, I don't feel that is true, but sometimes I am just socially awkward especially if my mind is elsewhere.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: mostly nonfiction - Richard Dawkins (sums that up nicely), philosophy, history (historical fiction), science...

I don't watch much television at all except maybe South Park. I like historical documentaries.

Depending on my mood, anything from classical to classic rock - sans country. Not much for bluegrass either.

I like ethnic foods like Thai and Greek.

Renaissance, Rococo, vanitas and Baroque art to name a few. I also like Jan Steen.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Quality friendships - thinking people
My three dogs - min pin, chihuahua and toy rat terrier
Art museums
Rational thought if that is possible
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The nature of the universe.
Epistomology and metaphysics.
What civilization is coming to.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home reading.
Being tired from the ZZZzzzzzzzzzzzz...........
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am an open book.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 50–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
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You are open-minded about such things as gay marriage and that if there is a god, god is unknowable or at least are non-evangelical. If you like to try new things. If you are a life-long learner. Are willing to try new things.