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32 Charlotte, NC Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:25pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I'm brutally honest because I just really don't see the point in sugar coating anything. My best guess at what I'm looking for in a partner would be someone that can make me laugh, leads an active lifestyle, most likely bearded and has some overlap in musical preferences.

If you want a response, do not ask me about my tattoos, it's a surefire way to get your message deleted. And if you think this is rude, imagine 12 years of people asking you the same questions, or making the same lame jokes or a perfect stranger grabbing your arm...12 years! I don't mind talking about them to my friends but until we reach that status, the subject is taboo.

Philadelphia burbs, born and raised. I've been here about 2 years and just bought my first house!

Things that make me happy: CrossFit, baking, cats (even though I just found out I'm allergic), dogs (especially huskies), coffee, chai, a few beers on occasion, traveling (mostly road trips), shows, band tees, tattoos (but not talking about mine to strangers).

Ok so I'm a bit a picky, perhaps too much for my own good but I'm probably not going to change much at the age of 32.

You might NOT be a good match for me if: You can't grasp the concept that "you're" is a contraction used for "you are" and "your" is possessive, you wear graphic tees (as mentioned below), you enjoy wearing polo shirts on the weekends or could easily be mistaken for a Frat dude.
What I’m doing with my life
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cuddling with my cats and lifting heavy things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
judging people, saying no & petting cats.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my tattoos or my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently reading: Doomed
TV: Sherlock, Dr. Who, IT Crowd, House of Cards. January has been a lot of The Wire & The Fall.
On my "to watch" list: Maps to the Stars, Welcome to Yesterday, Only Lovers Left Alive.
Movies: All movies Cronenberg, There Will Be Blood, The Snowtown Murders, The Babysitters, In Her Skin, Dogtooth, Antichrist, Let the Right One In, The Horseman, I Saw the Devil, Session 9, Upstream Color, Top of the Lake, Irreversible, Animal Kingdom.
Music: Arctic Monkeys, At the Drive-In, Balance and Composure, Circa Survive, Dashboard Confessional, Mars Volta, The National, Nirvana, Pulp, Queens of the Stone Age, Sunny Day Real Estate, Thrice, Thursday, plus a crap ton of 90s music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music & french press coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
right soon-to-be new house.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at the gym and then home for some Netflix watching and off to bed early for the gym Saturday morning. I lead an exciting life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I want to pet babies.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
as an adult you have never/do not currently own any graphic tees from Hollister, AE, or A&F. No exceptions, ha, but for real, nah brah.
You are at least 25, and even that's pushing it, seriously not interested in anyone younger, you won't change my mind.