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33 Charlotte, NC Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:03am
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
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Let me start out with saying if I don't respond to your message it's most likely because I'm not interested. I'm probably the pickiest person you'll ever meet or likely not meet, when it comes to dating. I don't settle and I'm honestly fine being alone if the alternative is settling for something less than ideal. I choose not to respond because I've had some very negative reactions to even a polite rejection. If you would prefer a response please ask. If your ego is easily bruised then you are definitely not for me anyway. Messaging repeatedly will not increase your chances of getting a response, it will likely just agitate me.

I'm an introvert so it's a struggle for me to make small talk. Chances are unless I'm having a really good day I won't respond to your "Hey, How are you?", so make it something a bit more creative.

I'm a very independent and strong-willed person. While I wouldn't say I don't appreciate chivalry, I struggle with it. I will likely insist on doing something on my own before asking for help. I find words like "hun" or "sweetie" condescending to women, at least off the bat from someone I barely know.

My best guess at what I'm looking for in a partner would be someone that can make me laugh, leads an active lifestyle, most likely bearded and has some overlap in musical preferences.

Do not ask me about my tattoos, it's a surefire way to get your message deleted. And if you think this is rude, imagine 12 years of people asking you the same questions, or making the same lame jokes or a perfect stranger thinking it's acceptable to grab your arm. I don't mind talking about them to my friends but until we reach that status, the subject is taboo.

Philadelphia burbs, born and raised. I've been here about 2 years.

Things that make me happy: CrossFit, baking, cats, dogs (especially huskies), coffee, chai, beer, traveling (mostly road trips), shows, band tees, tattoos (but not talking about mine to strangers).

You might NOT be a good match for me if: You can't grasp the concept that "you're" is a contraction used for "you are" and "your" is possessive, you wear graphic tees (as mentioned below), you enjoy wearing polo shirts on the weekends or could easily be mistaken for a Frat dude.
What I’m doing with my life
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cuddling with my cats and lifting heavy things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
judging people, saying no & petting cats.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my tattoos or my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Currently reading: Doomed
TV: Sherlock, Dr. Who, IT Crowd, House of Cards. January has been a lot of The Wire & The Fall.
On my "to watch" list: Maps to the Stars, Welcome to Yesterday, Only Lovers Left Alive.
Movies: All movies Cronenberg, There Will Be Blood, The Snowtown Murders, The Babysitters, In Her Skin, Dogtooth, Antichrist, Let the Right One In, The Horseman, I Saw the Devil, Session 9, Upstream Color, Top of the Lake, Irreversible, Animal Kingdom.
Music: Arctic Monkeys, At the Drive-In, Balance and Composure, Circa Survive, Dashboard Confessional, Mars Volta, The National, Nirvana, Pulp, Queens of the Stone Age, Sunny Day Real Estate, Thrice, Thursday, plus a crap ton of 90s music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Clueless, music & french press coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I loathe 15 different people interrupting a conversation to tell me they like my tattoos while I'm just trying to have a nice day out with my friends.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at the gym and then home for some Netflix watching and off to bed early for the gym Saturday morning. I lead an exciting life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I want to pet babies.
You should message me if
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as an adult you have never/do not currently own any graphic tees from Hollister, AE, or A&F.
You are at least 26, and even that's pushing it, seriously not interested in anyone younger, you won't change my mind.