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57 • Albany, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 40–59
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Yesterday – 5:57pm
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Agnosticism, and very serious about it
- Dropped out of university
- Sales / Marketing
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English, French (Okay)
Maybe that should be my entire self-summery. But...let's cut to the chase and then I'll get all philosophic and stuff. Here is what is really important: I live by myself and still I put the toilet seat down. I will always be willing to stir the new peanut butter. And not only will I change the toilet paper, I'll put a roll out before the last one is done and will put the flap over or under, whatever you want. I am not unlike Gandhi in these ways.
If you've been looking for a man of quality who will bring something rich to your life, maybe what you're looking for is someone you don't expect it to be. I'm smart and funny and kind, have wonderful friends and a great job, a satisfying life. I'm calm and easy to get along with. I have a tendency to surprise my partners, which is sweet and good and fun. I'm a good man. And if you meet me you will see why people respond to me--but that's the challenge we all face here on OKCupid: trying to convey who we are and what makes us special through a two-dimensional artificial and artifice-filled website. I promise I am exactly who I say I am and represent myself to be. Yes, I'm 57 (58 soon). Yes, I'm 5'7". Stopped getting taller long ago. Chances are I won't be leaning over to kiss the top of your head. I wish it didn't matter, but I'm afraid it sometimes does.
My experience in relationships has been rich. Good, bad wonderful, ridiculous. I wouldn't trade any of it. I feel fortunate for my experiences and the love I've shared. And I'm pretty sure nearly all of the women I've been involved with would feel the same about their time with me--though there are always exceptions.
I'm funny in person. Hard to believe when you read this, but it's true. I like to have fun. If you take a chance and meet me you will meet someone you will be glad to have in your life, one way or another. If we click and something really happens I will treat you as well as any man ever has--maybe better. You deserve that, don't you?
A friend just posted this on her FB page, and I liked it:
I took the kiss full on the mouth, sweet fruit, miraculous chemistry of salts and water that keeps the flesh, that swells and spills and feels so like weeping. What belongs to me, if not this? - Lynda Hull
There are lovers content with longing.
I’m not one of them.
I remember the hour
you stole time from me
and here in these late pages
I try to collect back
the kisses in the parking lot
that erased my history
next to that green F-150
when you became my future.
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