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WishboneW

57 Albany, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Sign
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Let's cut to the chase and then I'll get all philosophic and stuff. Here is what is really important: I live by myself and still I put the toilet seat down. I will always be willing to stir the new peanut butter. And not only will I change the toilet paper, I'll put a roll out before the last one is done and will put the flap over or under, whatever you want. I am not unlike Gandhi in these ways.

If you've been wandering around on this site for weeks or months or years (or hours), looking for a man of quality who will bring something rich to your life, maybe what you're looking for is someone you don't expect it to be. I'm smart and funny and kind, have wonderful friends and a great job, a satisfying life. I'm calm and easy to get along with. I have a tendency to surprise my partners, which is sweet and good and fun. I'm a good man. I like--really like--women. I respect them and value them and don't give them shit because they're women. Women, truly, are the best. I've heard men send women rude and unpleasant e-mails sometimes. What the hell is that about?

My experience in relationships has been rich. Good, bad wonderful, ridiculous. I wouldn't trade any of it. I feel fortunate for my experiences and the love I've shared. And I'm pretty sure nearly all of the women I've been involved with would feel the same about their time with me--though there are always exceptions.

I'm funny in person. Hard to believe when you read this, but it's true. I like to have fun. If you take a chance and meet me you will meet someone you will be glad to have in your life, one way or another. If we click and something really happens I will treat you as well as any man ever has--maybe better. You deserve that, don't you?

A friend just posted this on her FB page, and I liked it:

I took the kiss full on the mouth, sweet fruit, miraculous chemistry of salts and water that keeps the flesh, that swells and spills and feels so like weeping. What belongs to me, if not this? - Lynda Hull
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Selling books, reading books, making new friends, enjoying the ones I have, trying to find every good moment in this life. Telling the people I love that I love them. Trying to find the person to share my life with. Having conversations with strangers on planes and in airports and restaurants and bookstores and anywhere else I happen to be poking my nose.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding a great song, a great book, cooking a good meal, being a good friend and companion and lover. Finding an erogenous zone that no one has found before. Really.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Easy presence, calmness, sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Too hard to choose a book or movie or music. I'll go with a nice slice of cherry pie for food. I read all the time, and these days I think I would go insane without my mp3 player, filled with everything from Beethoven to Beck to Patsy Cline, Nanci Griffith, Little Feat, Sun Kil Moon, Pat Metheny. As to books I just finished a book called Pacific by Tom Drury that I loved. Winter Vault by Anne Michaels is a favorite, a beautiful book about love. But part of the hunger to meet someone new is the hunger to be exposed to what they love, too. I want to hear music I've never heard before, to be told about books I've never read, to go to a favorite restaurant that's not mine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, music, rivers, hot sauce, my great community of friends, everything else I've left out.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything, I guess. Life on this planet, relationships of all kinds, work and books and music and fun and love. Just saw this on a poet's page. I guess I spend a lot of time thinking about this:

There are lovers content with longing.
I’m not one of them.
-Rumi
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Really depends. In or out, home or not.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I would really like to find someone great. And that I have had some wonderful relationships with extraordinary women, beautiful, intelligent, funny, charming--I have loved them and they have loved me, too. And that's pretty sweet.
You should message me if
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You feel like it or you're willing to just have fun with this. I will always say something back. I promise you I am exactly as I present myself here...but better. I had a ridiculously long poem here, but this is shorter and nice, too. It's called Thief by Sally Van Doren. I like the way she captures that moment of connection, recognition, kisses.

I remember the hour
you stole time from me

and here in these late pages
I try to collect back

the kisses in the parking lot
that erased my history

next to that green F-150
when you became my future.