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WithAV

33 / M / gay / Single

Raleigh, North Carolina

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White, Undeclared
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am confident, trustworthy, and sexual.

My Self-Summary

For the most part, I enjoy meeting awesome new people for good times. Love to laugh at myself and those I love. Honesty is one of the few traits that I value over humor. You either have it or you do not.

I tend to be a communicator at heart. I do not like conversation that does not add to an understanding of one another, or one that does not entertain both parties.

I tend to gravitate towards people that have a logical approach to life but has an easy time laughing at the day to day things that many let slip by. I like taking the time to understand those that I am close to so that we can laugh at one anther too ;-)

As far as activities, I have a huge passion for travel! I also love to camp, take a roadtrip, swim, play pool, white water raft, cookout with some wonderful company...in fact, anything is fair game with wonderful company.

What I’m doing with my life

Living it so that each New Years, I can look back at the choices I made the prior year and be proud. I seek to improve and evolve all the way until the end!

I’m really good at

I like to think that I am quite a good cook and I have been known to be a bit funny at times. Hit me up and you may get a smile and a laugh in person ;-)

The first things people usually notice about me

I think it may be my eyes as people look at them and then start to ask my ethnicity. However, most people do not talk to me first as I have been told that I seem to be "standoffish" (is that even a word?). Trust me, I am just a big teddy bear.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Movies: Color Purple, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Se7en, Fight Club, Usual Suspects, Labyrinth, Goonies, Sound of Music, Freeway...just so many and always up for suggestions.

Music: This tends to change. I like a bit of everything but some artists that I can not do without: James Taylor, Sublime, Nina Simone, Tracey Chapman, Pearl Jam, Elton John, Arctic Monkeys, Mika...once again, open to suggestions.

Books: I like Dean Koontz, and yes I have read the Harry Potter books. Currently starting to read Christopher Rice as I delve into fiction that tells the tale of homosexuality. Speaking of...Poppy Z Bright anyone?

The six things I could never do without

I could do without anything as long as I still had those that I love around me. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy nice things and my comforts, but I could walk away from it all for someone I love.

On a typical Friday night I am

At a friends house, on the porch, having a couple beers. Perhaps the grill is going with some yummy grub on it. I can also be known to be on my way out of town for a nice weekend away.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am not as innocent as I look!

You should message me if

You are an honest person and do not play games with other people's heads and hearts. Be willing to live life and not afraid to take a new path.