WitheredFlower
31 Amherst, MA
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My self-summary
Hi! I'm INTJ/INTP, creatively minded, and love elegant things. I'm very tactile, to the point of being hedonistic. I love good food, good clothes, little luxuries, stunning visuals. I try to surround myself with beautiful things & people, and keep myself spiritually sound & grounded. I love both being home & travelling.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently I have my own sewing & crafting business I run from home. I sell online, as well as at conventions/shows. I'm happy every day with what I do, and the ability to constantly create what I like keeps me stress-free.

I am also a lifestyle and professional dominant, and attend area kink events for education and to socialize. With that in mind, bdsm features strongly in my life. However I don't especially have an interest in traditional sexual relationships, and I am most interested in friendships or non-traditional relationships.
I’m really good at
Creating, sewing, engineering. Event planning.
The first things people usually notice about me
My "perfect" shape(I hear it said that way, I'm not joking), elegant nature, sailor mouth, and slightly unusual way of speaking.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Too many...but for fandom, Harry Potter.

Movies: Labyrinth, Legend, Willow, Rocky Horror, Repo! The genetic opera, Dangerous Liaisons, Marie Antoinette, The Duchess, Ice Pirates, Star Wars, Star Trek & more...

Shows: Supernatural, Downton Abbey, Sherlock, Dr. Who, Farscape, Star Trek, The Walking Dead, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Bones, Xena, Hercules...

Music: Symphonic Metal, Power Metal, 80's, Classic Rock, K-Pop, some J-pop/J-rock.

Food: There is no bad food...only bad cooking. That said, I love Indian, Thai, Japanese & French the most...for going out. I also love more unusual fare, like Lebanese, Moroccan, Tibetan, ect.
The six things I could never do without
Tea
Pillows
My Car
Music
My Health
Internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. But among other things, some creative project or another...designing it in my head or on paper, and how to best execute it to completion whenever time allows.
On a typical Friday night I am
On the internet, browsing, reading, learning...off on a tangent. Reading a physical book sometimes instead. Watching a movie or series on netflix or amazon prime, often with my partner, Scarlet_Machina. Sometimes I'm out to dinner with friends or otherwise XD!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You can ask me anything and I'll probably answer, but I'm not inclined to admit anything right here in this box.

It's pretty difficult to define "private".
You should message me if
You're a service oriented submissive/very kinky person who is well spoken, can compose full sentences, shares several common interests, and would enjoy getting to know a *mildly* narcissistic sociopath over a cup of finely brewed loose leaf earl grey(whole milk and sugar, please).

You are comfortable with polyamory, and understand the difference between poly and open relationships.

If you could bring lilacs(or mention them in your message), I'd be ecstatic.
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