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26 Lowell, MA Woman


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  • Ages 20-35
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Last online
Jun 23
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5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Working on Post grad
Might want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I like ideas. My idea of a great time is having an intense debate with a smart person, getting to the bottom of an interesting issue, and coming to understand things I didn't understand before.

I'm a composer and a flutist, and someday soon I would like to make a living off of music. If you get me talking about music theory, it is difficult to get me to stop.

Other things about me: I like to cook meals from scratch. I walk really fast. I like comics. I have the worst sense of direction of anyone you will ever meet. I spend a lot of time watching kittens frolic on youtube. I am sex-positive but monogamous by personal preference, and I'm the kind of lower-case-f feminist who thinks that the whole idea of gender is essentially bogus.
What I’m doing with my life
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Getting my master's in music education. I want to be a high school band director. Teenagers are fascinating people, and I would like to enable them to be band geeks.

Right now I wait tables. It is not a job that is well suited to my personality.
I’m really good at
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Figuring out the chords to Disney songs, drawing cartoon representations of myself, making pizza, being rational.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm really opinionated. Also, that I look like Rachel Maddow.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anything by Kurt Vonnegut or Neal Stephenson, Ursula K. LeGuin's The Dispossessed, Dune, ASOIAF.

TV Shows: Star Trek TOS, Firefly, Futurama, Arrested Development, Bob's Burgers, QI.

Music: Pretty much everything except avant-garde anti-art. My favorite music to play is jazz, and the music I write is classical-ish (tonal but not functional, if you know the jargon. Heavily influenced by Romantic music but with contemporary elements, like most film music.)

Movies: Pulp Fiction, Inglorious Basterds, A Serious Man, Fight Club, Little Miss Sunshine, Clue, O Brother Where Art Thou
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, solitude, good conversations, Wikipedia, my journal, and earplugs.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- society and how it works
- how entertainment reflects and influences culture
- music, especially music theory
- language
- gay history
- the psychology and sociology of gender and sexuality
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a single, transparent hair that grows out of the middle of my forehead no matter how many times I pluck it out. Come and get it ladiez, you know you want this.
You should message me if
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you want to hang out with me in person. I'm bad at getting to know people over the Internet.