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35 M Elk Grove, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:46pm
Pacific Islander, White
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Where do I start? I don't want to give away too much about myself. What's the fun in that?

First and foremost I am a bit of a nerd. I would be very comfortable in the company of Chris Pirillo, Felicia Day, and Jonathan Coulton. Thumbs up if you are familiar with that lot! I am somewhat quiet, but that changes the better I get to know a person.

I am married and have a son who is seven. He speaks Chinese... Really, I'm serious. You'll just have to ask me about it. I have a dog, and that's pretty tame considering some of the pets I've had in the past (ie. a potbellied pig, a tarantula, and a dancing parrot).

I just moved to the Sacramento area from Indiana. I'm hoping to meet new friends that can show me the best spots SAC has to offer (food, entertainment, etc).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am an electrical engineer (hence the lame/nerdy username referencing Carl Friedrich Gauss - I mean come on, they expect you to come up with something good on the spot?!) and a computer programmer. I work at a small company, which means I don't get to meet a lot of new people. That's why I'm here!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
playing the guitar, oil painting, piloting RC aircraft, racing go-karts, baking/decorating cakes, computer programming, and photography.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can be quiet/shy at first, especially when socializing in larger groups. I'm not the type of person to have a conversation just for the sake of having a conversation. But be careful, if you manage to stumble upon certain topics, you won't be able to get me to shut up.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This changes too frequently to keep up to date, so I'm not even going to try. But ask what I'm into right now, and you shall receive an answer!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I am assuming this means aside from the obvious food, water, shelter...

1. My phone
2. My MINI Cooper
3. Sushi
4. The Internet
5. ...
6. Profit
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
pretty typical stuff: food, money, sex, music, movies, gadgets...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
as of lately, watching shows on Netflix. Sometimes it's fun to get together with friends and play games. I'm a big fan of Settlers of Catan, so much that I have the 3D version!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I pour my milk before the cereal. Apparently this is the wrong way to do it?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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You think I am interesting, or if you think you are interesting and you want to share why. I find intelligence attractive and enjoy the company of those that can carry on a good conversation.

I am looking for new friends, a flirty relationship, or maybe even more. I'm in an open marriage, so having an open mind is a plus! My wife and I are exploring polyamory, and we're looking for people that are like-minded.