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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 32–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
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5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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In the third grade, my Language Arts instructor gave the class an assignment: write a two to three paragraph personal essay explaining what you would do if you had one wish. My eyes lit up. This was the kind of brain exercise I had been waiting for. Constantly reprimanded for reading too much fiction, I finally had the chance to flex my imagination.

I penned what I still consider to be one of my best essays ever, entitled, "If I Was 100 Feet Tall." In those three paragraphs, I chronicled my journey through jungles where I'd converse eye-to-eye with giraffes while parrots flew round my head, and explained how I'd walk across the Atlantic ocean. It was a hoot. Truly, it was the most fun I had ever had with schoolwork up to that point. Yep, that's right. It even beat out finger-painting in kindergarten.

The next day, we all arrived in class eager for feedback on our magna opera. However, the teacher entered the room with a solemn look that instantly drained the class of its energy. She began a presentation on gigantism; it was a cautionary tale about a man known as the Alton Giant. "Sonuvabitch, she's calling me out," I thought. At first, I was mortified, but that quickly gave way to anger. She explained that this gentle giant died at the age of 22 due to his medical condition. The moral of her story: be careful what you wish for.

I had been set up.

Two things happened as a result. One, it spawned a lifelong mistrust for institutionalized authority. Two, I decided to ignore her practicality and promise myself to never stop imagining what might be, because who wants to live in a world where third-graders have to worry about the consequences of being 100-feet tall?

I also really like the Wu-Tang Clan.

[To the dozen+ people who have sent me a message telling me how sad this anecdote made them, you're reading it wrong. To the girl who wrote me and said, "Damn, I literally just burst into laughter at work when I got to I also really like the Wu-Tang Clan," you totally get it.]
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Per the above story, I went to college after some post-high school vagabondish adventures and studied philosophy and creative writing. I discovered my passion for media arts and digital storytelling so I picked up my masters.

After a few years in journalism, I made the switch to advertising. Still a writer and primarily work on interactive ad campaigns for film and TV. Sometimes my work takes me to amazing places around the world, like Budapest.

And every other term, I teach a college class on the side. Clearly, I hate sleep.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Tetris and bourbon sipping.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That my glasses are quite rad.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Things I like: writing, reading a lot of fiction, tattoos, jiu jitsu, used book stores (and old book smell), independent and foreign cinema, sci-fi and super-hero flick, good coffee, travel, sushi, being healthy, not being religious, art (lots of art), fiction, open-mindedness, people who are a little nerdy (even better if it's a lot nerdy), science blogs, hole-in-the-wall cafes and dive bars that make you happy you wandered off the beaten path, graphic novels, comics, and all things a little odd and unique.

Movies: Her, Inside Llewyn Davis, The Master, American Beauty, Beasts of the Southern Wild, Blade Runner, Coffee and Cigarettes, A Clockwork Orange, Requiem for a Dream, Before Midnight (whole trilogy), Lost in Translation, and anything Wes Anderson, Lars von Trier, Tarantino, or David Lynch. Oh, and I cannot forget cheesy horror films, classic sci-fi, and most superhero movies.

Books: House of Leaves, Pale Fire, Brave New World, Cosmic Banditos, Last Exit to Brooklyn, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Henry Miller, Philip Roth, David Foster Wallace, Bukowski, E.E. Cummings, Kurt Vonnegut, the Beat Generation, Existentialists, and on and on. Also, I read a ridiculous amount of comic books and graphic novels.

Music: very eclectic and vinyl. Currently, I'm on a Syd Barrett kick. Update: the Barrett kick has ended, as did Blackalicious, The Glitch Mob, and Childish Gambino. Now it's David Bowie.

TV: Game of Thrones, The Walking Dead, Arrow, Doctor Who, Lost, X-Files, Fringe, Arrested Development, Orphan Black, Sherlock, Luther, and, well, you get the idea.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Travel ... life is no fun if you don't explore
Coffee ... strong, black, and large
Reading/ Movies ... I need to consume stories on the regular.
Internet ... not even going to lie
Those up until 2 am conversations about the universe
Avocado rolls ... and in mass quantity w/ lots of wasabi
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What my next tattoo will be. How much I miss thunderstorms and autumn. Seriously, sunshine is awesome, but enough is enough Los Angeles. It's okay to be a little grey sometimes.

Oh, and this quote:

"The amazing thing is that every atom in your body came from a star that exploded. And, the atoms in your left hand probably came from a different star than your right hand. It really is the most poetic thing I know about physics: You are all stardust. You couldn’t be here if stars hadn’t exploded, because the elements - the carbon, nitrogen, oxygen, iron, all the things that matter for evolution - weren’t created at the beginning of time. They were created in the nuclear furnaces of stars, and the only way they could get into your body is if those stars were kind enough to explode. So, forget Jesus. The stars died so that you could be here today." -Lawrence M. Krauss

Also, this:
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't really have a typical Friday night. It can be movies with friends, hanging out at a dive bar, catching a live show, hunting for a space shuttle (although I guess that was a one-time thing), relaxing at home with a book or Netflix, road-tripping up the coast, out to dinner, playing video games, or just whatever sounds good.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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One time I voted Republican just to see how dirty I'd feel.

Also, I have a bad habit of opening a bazillion tabs on my browser and leaving them open for days. So, if it looks like I'm viewing your profile a lot, it's more likely I opened it and forgot about it in the wasteland of tabs. Oops.

And I will sometimes jam to this:
You should message me if
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"The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars." -Jack Kerouac

I know that quote is a bit overplayed nowadays, but it's spot-on accurate. So, if you're passionate, creative, nerdy, geeky, irreverent and make your own path, then I'd love to get to know you -- as friends, or more.

Also, I am over casual dating and not into random hook-ups. It would be great to find something of substance.