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  • Ages 29–51
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Yesterday – 7:18pm
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Post grad
My self-summary
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Me? Lil ol' me? Well, if you insist. "The details of my life are quite inconsequential... My father was a relentlessly self-improving boulangerie owner from Belgium with low grade narcolepsy and a penchant for buggery. My mother was a fifteen year old French prostitute named Chloe with webbed feet..." Wait, that wasn't me, that was Dr. Evil. Me, I've been in the city for a long while, having come from Massachusetts (with a stop in LI for grad school). I really enjoy living here, though I've still kept my loyalty to the hometown teams. I'm an actor and writer (and also work as a medical editor. Although no one knows what that means. Even after I explain it). I've shaved my chest three times to play William Shatner, been crushed to death by a giant lobster claw, performed completely in the dark, and fought off atomic flesh-eating zombies (until I eventually got bitten and shot...and then there's the stuff that's really out there). And those were all different shows, although I am now kind of curious what that would look like all combined.

I am happy, peppy, and bursting with love.

The beard comes and goes.
What I’m doing with my life
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In addition to the aforementioned careers, always looking to learn about life and perspective.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
enjoying myself, laughing, talking, back rubs. And empathy.
The first things people usually notice about me
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To be honest, I have no idea. I've never met me. Just one day, there I was, and I seem to follow me wherever I go. Maybe someone here can let me know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books/other works: King Lear, Catcher in the Rye, The Lovely Bones, The Magic Kingdom, Mambo Peligroso, Monkey King, We Need to Talk About Kevin, What Girls Learn, Catch-22, God Knows, Night, One Hundred Years of Solitude, Dodsworth, All Quiet on the Western Front, Waiting, The Sirens of Titan, Slaughterhouse-Five.

Movies: It's a Wonderful Life, Mr. Smith Goes to Washington, Mr. Deeds Goes to Town, High Noon, The Producers, The Godfather I &II, Vertigo, Jaws, The Sweet Hereafter, 12 Angry Men, Secrets and Lies, Shall We Dance (the original Japanese version), Pan's Labyrinth, Spirited Away, To Kill a Mockingbird, Inherit the Wind, House of Flying Daggers, Starman...and a bazillion more.

Music: The Kinks, The Who, Pink Floyd, Yes, Peter Gabriel, U-2, Joan Jett, Concrete Blonde, Heather Greene, The Lisps, Allison Crowe, Alison Moyet, The Killers. Just saw Rush at MSG.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I never say never...except just then...that was the first time.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the universe, and everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Seeing a show, at the movies, meeting friends, at home
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Once I...wait a minute. Nice try, OKCupid. Almost got me there.
You should message me if
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you feel the inclination. I'd be happy to hear from you. Go for it. Life is short. Carpe diem. Seize the day. Other life-affirming quotations moving you to positive action.