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But_LifeGoesOn

32 / M / Straight / Single

Minneapolis, Minnesota

His Details

Last Online
May 19
Ethnicity
Native American, White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Gujarati (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm witty, compassionate, non-judgmental, aware, logical, a little shy, a little corny, playful, confident (but humble... I dont over compensate because I'm insecure about myself in some way), a lover, not a fighter.

I like football, all you sports haters, don't judge... Im not a jock, It's the only sport I like and I'm not even sure why... However, I hate going to sports bars, usually I watch it by myself or with one of my maybe 2 other friends that don't tease me about it.

I looooooove music, playing, seeing and listening. Music with integrity though. None of that Clear Channel stuff though, not for me. Besides music, I love and appreciate all arts. Sometimes interpretive dance can be a little scary though...

I love learning and experiencing new things, especially other cultures. When I travel, I try to avoid the touristy spots and try to find the attractions that local people enjoy. I also love "nature", animals, landscapes etc... I like to travel and go on hikes. I'm not talking fast pace walking, looking straight ahead and talking super loud with whomever you're with. I like to not say a word and listen, soak it all in.

I like to stay pretty active outside, i ride bike and work out and Im fairly conscious about the food I eat. I really don't eat meat (if you would like to know my "rules" for eating it, just ask) I havnt been to a fast food restaurant in about 10 years, but sometimes I'll eat a frozen pizza and I'm a sucker for Ben n Jerry's.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now i am WORKINGWORKINGWORKING, I work 2 jobs cooking.

I play music in a metal band. No I dont think I'm higher socially because of it, yes I have a life outside of playing in a band, no I don't think I'm a rock star. No I don't use it as a tool to pick up women. I do it because I love playing music and that is literally it.

I'm gearing up to finally finish my degree. Those are the most significant things right now.
I’m really good at
Communicating; i believe its the most important part of any relationship.

making people laugh.

Spotting hawks and falcons on light posts while driving on the freeway.

Playing DJ, i have a ton of music...

Clapping super loud.

Suggesting good beer to people.

Cleaning.
The first things people usually notice about me
my distinct elbows? I've never asked. Probably face. I've also heard that i have nice eyes and a nice set of buns.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Blood Struggle, Skull Wars, The Dark Elf trilogy (guilty nerd pleasure...)

I like a lot of different shows/movies. Heres a random list:

Movies: Le Amnistad, Lord Of The Rings, Better Off Dead, Evil Dead, most Tim Burton, Tarantino and Christopher Guess, Conan The Barbarian, I <3 Huckabies, Pan's Labyrinth, V For Vendetta, Basketball Diaries...

Tv: The Walking Dead, Ren & Stimpy, Weeds, Game Of Thrones, Dexter, Superjail, It's Always Sunny... Workaholics, 30 Rock.

I also like a ton of different, random documentaries, I love learning new things. Lately i try to keep myself upbeat with comedies. Usually kind of dark ones. I enjoy God Bless America, anything Louis CK, Eastbound And Down, etc... I also enjoy

I love music in general, but i mostly love metal (death/black/doom/thrash/grind/crust/dbeat/power/sludge/blahblahblah...etc...
Some of my favorite non-metal bands are

Devotchka
Cinematic Orchestra
The Black Keys
16 Horsepower
Tom Waits
Dead Kennedys
Portishead
Amon Tobin
Cannibal Ox
Immortal Technique
RJD2
Blockhead
Olllllld Country (Cash, Hank Williams)
Ollllllld Jazz (Billy Holiday, The Ink Spots)
Lotsa 70's pre-metal (Black Sabbath, Scorpions)

I love food, I eat lots of different types, just as long as it isn't crap.
The six things I could never do without
Music
Air
Food
Water
Human contact.

What?? Yes, I put down literal stuff because that's the way I interpreted this part of the profile. And I'm not materialistic.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The human race
Music
My cats
Driving etiquette
Friends/family
What to eat
My future
Work.
On a typical Friday night I am
Having a drink at home and listening to records

Going to a show with some friends

Working

Watching a movie with cats piled on top of me.

Running through the woods, howling at the moon
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I dont know what exactly to say here... Its such a broad thing and no single thing stops in my mind. You'll have to ask me i guess...

I mambo music is the perfect type of music to cook to.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You feel the urge?

I love metal n stuff but im not necessarily lookin for a "metal" or "punk" girl. If you're going to judge me by my piercings and clothing attire, not are you more than likely wrong about your judgement but we probably wouldn't get along anyways. I value people with intellect and can tell me something new. I'm pretty open-minded and non-judgmental, i guess I'm looking for people who are the same.

And if you think the word "fudge" is a little funny.