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32 M Quincy, MA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:35am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I aspire to live a simple life, slowed-down enough so i can feel that each moment counts, but not slow enough to let boredom weasel its way in.

I'm a blend of the domestic and the wild, with the wild taking a slight lead.

Wanna get non-dunkin donuts coffee?

I am interested in someone who wants to share a meaningful relationship in whatever form that may take - long, short, casual, serious - Honesty, compassion, and passion are all important factors to me, any i'd hope my partner shares those values.

I'm definitely more of a romantic, a believer in that magic - I would rather go on a few dates with someone and wait for that first kiss.

I've reached a point in my life where I've now assigned absolute value to things: fresh air, fine wine, mental and physical fitness, coffee (i just had to add that in again), cuddling, meditating, dancing, taking in a thunderstorm, NPR podcasts, bonsai, poetry readings... If you value one, some, or all of these, let's chat.
What I’m doing with my life
I work for a global commercial real estate and office service company and now manage sales and operations including IT for their Cambridge center. Longtime retail veteran here.

I'll be going back to school soon, aiming for a MFA and then Ph.D. in Literature and Creative Writing (yes, these do exist). I'd love to be part of the editorial masthead of a respectable and hopefully-well-funded literary magazine and also teach writing (as far as it's possible to be taught lol) to undergrad or continuing ed students. I've written several books of fiction and poetry and i'm working on getting my stuff
published little by little before pitching a book-
length manuscript toward first book contests.

Most recently I started studying both the art of bonsai, and Tantra, and am relishing their conceptual similarities.
I’m really good at
Writing, editing, remembering the strangest specifics of people and events, doing impressions of film characters and reciting absurdly long pieces of scripts, planning surprises, giving massages, training bonsai, knowing where I'm going (in terms of directions, not necessarily where my life is going), problem-solving, hand-eye coordination, predicting where lightning will strike, drinking coffee...
The first things people usually notice about me
eyes, locomotion, or ass, depending on the direction they first approach me from.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Zen and the Art of Writing, Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man, The Collected Poems of Yeats, Chronic, Sea Change, Given Sugar, Given Salt, A Coney Island of the Mind, Zen Mind Beginner's Mind, Red: Passion and Patience in the Desert, Urban Tantra, Of Mice and Men, The Things We Carried, Behind my Eyes, The Future of Life, Invisible Cities, Lunch Poems, Giovanni's Room, The Rosy Crucifixion, A Pilgrim at Tinker Creek, American Gods, the Adventures of Sherlock Holmes.

Films: The Godfather (and most other gangster films); many many screwball comedies from the 30s and 40's (think Philadelphia Story), noir like The Maltese Falcon; Kung Fu films (yes, even the cheesy ones), LOTR, Run Lola Run, Heaven, Spirited Away, most everything by Kubrick (except Barry Lyndon), everything by Kurosawa, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, Pan's Labyrinth, Bent, Brokeback Mountain, Y Tu Mama Tambien, Amelie, Kill Bill Vol 1, Traffic, Dances with Wolves, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, The Descent, City of God, There Will Be Blood, Incendies, Gravity.

TV: The Walking Dead, The Sopranos, La Femme Nikita, The X-Files, 2 Broke Girls, American Horror Story, Family Guy, Big Bang Theory, Web Therapy, Seinfeld

Music: early medieval chant and polyphony, J.S. Bach, Beethoven, Debussy, Satie, Jimi Hendrix, The Doors, Ella Fitzgerald, Thelonious Monk, Dire Straits, Fleetwood Mac, REM, sigur ros, The Rolling Stones, Pink Floyd, Radiohead, Alternative Riot (a friend's band), Catherine Wheel, Stars of the Lid, Mogwai

Food: Indian, Chinese, seafood, Mexican (authentic not bastardized), French, Italian (especially northern cooking)
The six things I could never do without
There are needs and then there are desires. Here are the needs: food, shelter, safety, love, intellectual stimulation, and the Red Line subway.

The wants: a smashing sex life, a spiritual center from which i can draw out a purpose to life, hair that does what I command, a more organized closet, a sprawling bonsai garden, and perhaps some day far down the line, a son or daughter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
friends, family (including pets), spirituality, creativity, sex and sexuality, social justice, professonial networking, mountains and running rivers, coffee, DSW clearance shoes, and the state of the environment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Last Friday I hit the racks at TJ Maxx on my way home from work, wandered the city, got a burrito, looked for street theatre then for a hole-in-the-wall enclave for a cocktail or some jazz/blues.

Ohhhhhh, a TYPICAL Friday night? I usually squeeze together a hot body contest at Machine, pool hustling at Gillian's, drag racing down Boylston, swimming the length of the Charles River, and then being taken via rooftop helicopter to my villa on Fire Island for the weekend where i get to be fanned with palm fronds by beautiful men :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a cool hard exterior but a warm gooey center.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 22–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if are self-sufficient, confident, and independent...there's nothing sexier. are not a nihilist. enjoy the outdoors or relish road trips to god knows where. have the time. I'll make a healthy return on your investment.