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44 F New York, NY

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Last Online
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5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay)

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My self-summary
We're all looking for that elusive chemistry. We'll both know if we click (although no snap judgments as some will surprise, hopefully for the best). Obviously, any wish list can go right out the window , but there are some things not to compromise on.

Please be kind and treat others well. I don't believe in perfection, but admire intelligence, sense of humor and a positive attitude. We should share some interests to spend time together, but not rely exclusively on each other for fulfillment. I prefer a relationship based on trust, respect and honesty. I love open-minded people who are willing to try new things, and who know when to be mature and when to be silly. A man who takes care of himself and his health is very sexy. I also hold high standards for myself. Although security is important, there is also much more to life than career. No need to take ourselves too seriously! I work to live and not the opposite. In that sense, I really believe in balance, which is probably my French side.

A little about me. I am loyal and direct (which can be a double-edged sword). I have strong values but think "out of the box". I consider myself relatively intellectual and creative, but can be very stupid at times too. I enjoy reading, photography, sports (biking skiing, tennis...), art, cooking and cinema, and am constantly striving to learn more. Willing to be taught! Traveling and music are my passions. I have traveled a lot and have friends all over the world I would do anything for. I am told I am attractive (value judgment) but while confident, I am not vain, so feel awkward about this whole "selling process". I take care of myself by working out (a necessary evil) and have a balanced diet. But sometimes, good habits are meant to be broken, as life is too short not to enjoy its pleasures!
What I’m doing with my life
Who really knows? Life is full of surprises and plans we make do not always work out, so you adapt and make the best of it. We are all learning everyday...
I’m really good at
Languages, cooking and for the rest, you'll judge.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
There is so much to say here as there are way too many genres or types in each category. Generally, I like literature (Tolstoy, Maupassant, Garcia-Marquez..) and new great fiction (Franzen, Roth, Lethem...) or biographies. I am not a fan of science fiction. For film, I tend to gravitate to classics, indies, foreign films and documentaries, but there are always exceptions. As far as music, I love jazz, latin, especially Brazilian, classical, R&B...Not a fan of country or rap/hiphop. Food: I have yet to meet a cuisine I did not like. No reptiles please though! TV: Colbert Report, Bill Maher, Daily Show, Mad Men, 60 Minutes... I am "hooked" on Breaking Bad and just bought the collection on DVD. No reality TV please with shows like The horny dwarves of Beverly Hills and their sisters who love them! OK, I made up this one but the real ones are the same...
The six things I could never do without
Why 6? OK in no specific order:
1. Love/Affection
3. Music
4. Laughter
5. Open mindedness
6. Learning/Knowledge
I know some people are very specific here, like "spicy tuna roll at Haru on weekends". I like that too....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the book I am writing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Is this high school? There is no such thing as a typical Friday night. It might involve dinner with a friend, a movie or staying home with a good book or movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a private person with tons of juicy information that if you get to know me, I will unravel... slowly! If it is private, why would I put it on the Internet???
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 46–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You'd like to be friends first and get to know each other a bit before we take it to the next level. I would like a relationship but in no rush to jump into a bad one! Please live or work within reasonable distance from NYC, so we can see each other. Obviously, attraction is an important factor but charm, wit and intelligence will win over a handsome man with a vacant personality anyday.