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37 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–62
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:26am
White, Other
6′ 4″ (1.94m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Other, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it matters a lot
Working on university
Art / Music / Writing
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Other

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Update NOW...
Please don't let your preconceptions of me be based upon what you read.
(That's asking alot, I know.)

It is such a small slice of me, and even the "facts" are open to change and reinterpretation with time, experience, or the right one(s)...

...double sigh. 😕

Update 12-31-14
I am in the process of rewriting this profile to be more inline with my kinky, sex-positive, poly-pan-sexual alignment. If you have questions, ask. If it's what is a "kinky, sex-positive, poly-pan-sexual alignment?", don't.
It's not that I don't care, I just want you on the same page.

Update 12-13-14
I'm not as serious as I seem.
I am more serious than you'd ever believe.

1ST's & 4Mosts:

1st- Yes, I have changed my profile name as a reflection of the change that I've undergone & the new life I have consciously begun.

I am the Manifold & Multi-Faceted Artist

I am a professional tattoo artist by day and a Fine Art student by night. I started as a writer, played as an actor, became a creator, writer, letterer & editor of independent comics and earned my Photoshop Chops thru over a decade in the trenches. I forged myself into a tattooist and grew into a visual artist that is ever expanding mediums from pencil & paper, to painting, sculpture, welding and glass.
As a child I walked thru death's door and overcame near-crippling trauma and injury and as a man I earned the title Marine. I have walked the Dark and I have also seen the Light. I have been knocked down more times than I can count, and love has lifted me higher than I ever dreamed to aspire.

I have been the playboy and the fiancee.
I have been addicted and I have been shattered.
I have been reforged, recycled, reinterpreted and remade.
I have been the romantic and the rake,
the boy scout and the rogue,
the genius and the madman,
the visionary and the fool.
I walk between worlds and tread the edges of paths.
I will inspire your dreams and I will manifest your desires.

Passion & Art are all that I am...

4Most- An absolute and profound apology from a Man for what the majority of my gender has become. It's truly come to light recently how much douchbaggery Women have to endure from these failures, these Boys.
Real Men do still exist, so please don't lose all hope in us...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Whatever I wish, want and desire.

Currently revaluating what that concept even is and what my previous conceptions were and how, or even if, they fit in with the new reality that I am in.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Pulling my ass off the ground after I get knocked onto it. Persevering. Being a functional madman. Procrastinating. And anything creative....and I am VERY creative!


Oh, did I mention sex?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, my height, my hands and my passion.

That most animals and children instantly adore me.

I am a phenomenal cuddler. I am the perfect nook for you to crawl into.

My laughter is infectious.

I am not what you think.
Even now.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Just finished Leatherfolk: Radical Sex, People, Politics, and Practice, and I am currently sweating over The Leather Daddy And The Femme by Carol Queen.
I recently concluded my first tempestuous romp with a certain Mr. Jack do believe that I love that man!
Golden Age science fiction, Song of Ice & Fire ( Game of Thrones), The Wheel of Time, Ananzi Boys, American Gods, Ender's Game, The Elric Saga, The Count of Monte Cristo, The Hero of a Thousand Faces, The Odyssey, Transmetropolitan, Come In Alone, The Sackett Series by Louis L'Amour, anything by Phillip K. Dick, Gordon R. Dickson or Robert A. Heinlein. Fight Club, Pi, Seven Years in Tibet, Shogun, Scrooged, Grandma's Boy, Braveheart, Highlander, Princess Mononoke, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Red Hot Chili Peppers, System of a Down, Slipknot, Sublime, Incubus, NIN, STP, Nirvana, El Pus, Hed P.E., Audioslave, Jimi Hendrix, Five Finger Death Punch and my man, Mr. Bob Freaking Marley.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.

But if I had to say anything, it would be music. I don't think that life would be worth living if there wasn't any music...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can stop that zen kinda way, if you know what I mean.

The path to ego destruction and mind-kill.

The Eightfold Path.

The moment that is right NOW.

Father Coyote and all of his wonderful tricks!

Batman and all of his wonderful toys!

Examining how my overtly masculine personality meshes with my queer sexual philosophy and my creative androngynous psychology.

How to help make you think.

Your welcome.
(And yes, that usage was on porpoise.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Thinking up glib responses to inane questions and/or
Slinging drinks at the gay bar!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am Insane...
In the eyes
of the predominant

For I choose
to not believe
in those things seen,
But to perceive
thru those things

And I just may be

Or not.

You should message me if
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