42 San Antonio, TX
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My self-summary
I am polyamorous. I have a wife of 18 years. She is monogamous. She meets anyone I am dating, but is not involved with my other relationships. Still reading? I prefer polyifidelity type situations. Casual sex isn't for me.

I am dedicated, loyal, and I am patient when it comes to building relationships. I would like to meet new friends and I am open to finding another partner. Relationships and spending time with loved ones make up the essence of my personality.

My wife and I ran the San Antonio Lesbian Social Group for four years (1998-2002?). We hosted a variety of gatherings for women to meet and mingle. I am good at coordinating social events and love the feeling of a women's community.

I am also an admin for the local poly Meetup group.
I have met some wonderful people through that group, but I was still craving women's space so I put together a poly women's group. We use a hidden Facebook group to coordinate. Several women can't be out and we needed the extra privacy. That group focuses more on building community and being supportive.

I have always been around animals and wanted to be a veterinarian. Life didn't take me in that direction, but I still do rescue work and enjoy my own menagerie. You pretty much have to get along with them if you are going to be around me. I have a variety of antihistames if you have pet allergies.

Toys at my house include computerized telescopes, microscopes, bionic ear, and a full chemistry set. I have so much fun being a science geek. Lately, I have been gearing up to cultivate a few types of gourmet mushrooms.

I am also kinky. My Fetlife profile is under the same screen name.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a BA in Anthropology and Eastern religions with minors in Classical studies and pre veterinary medicine. I also have a few publications in plant physiology. If I had taken all of my science credits in one location, I would also have a BS in Biology. Liberal Arts poster child anyone? I am dyslexic and had to work harder on certain subjects. I still can't spell very well.

I spend my free time working on my aquaponic gardens, vivariums, and my aquariums.
I’m really good at
I guess you could say that I am a science geek even though one of those tests says I am 100% pure nerd.

I enjoy aquaponic and hydroponic gardening. I started mentoring students involved in a community garden at a local university last year. Next year, we hope to add some bee hives to the garden . We will also be setting up an aquaponic system on campus once the new science building is finished.

I was recruited to the Olympic development camp for US Modern Pentathlon at the age of 13 (running, swimming, horseback riding, fencing, and shooting). The training schedule was brutal so I focused on women's epee fencing. I fenced in two World Cup tournaments. My body is a bit banged up, but I still like to keep up with my friends in the sport.
The first things people usually notice about me
People first notice how outgoing I am and then they usually notice my zoo.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: My librarians know me by name. I have a stack of 4-6 books by my bed at all times. I like science fiction, mysteries, and crime fiction for pleasure reading. There are so many other genres that I read, but I just listed my favorites.

Food: Thai, Vietnamese, Mexican, Italian...anything except sushi.

Movies: action, drama, foreign, comedy

Music: Classical, Opera, Rock, Alternative, Electronic, Indie, some folk, some country-- no rap
The six things I could never do without
my friends and partners
unlimited internet and phone to keep up with my friends
access to wilderness areas
good lube
I spend a lot of time thinking about
sustainable living and aquaponic food production
On a typical Friday night I am
I am having dinner with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Not sure how to answer this one.
You should message me if
You would like to chat or hang out sometime. If you like gardening and don't have a place to get your hands in dirt, shoot me an email!