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41 San Antonio, TX Woman


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–99
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:12pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Not at all
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Latin (Okay), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am polyamorous. I have a wife of 17 years and a girlfriend of a little over a year. I am dedicated, loyal, and I am patient when it comes to building relationships. I would like to meet new friends. I am the person that will be with you in the ER at 3 AM or the one that will help you move in the rain.

My partner and I ran the San Antonio Lesbian Social Group for four years (1998-2002?). We hosted a variety of gatherings for women to meet and mingle. I am good at coordinating social events and love the feeling of a women's community.
We now coordinate a poly women's group. We host events every few weeks. If you want more information, message me.

I have always been around animals and wanted to be a veterinarian. Life didn't take me in that direction, but I still do rescue work and enjoy my own menagerie.

My 60 lb African sulcata tortoise comes when called, knows his name, and likes to cuddle. He will go to the back door to ask to be let out. He has dog tags glued to his shell because he likes to go visit the neighbors sometimes. At 60 lbs and still growing, it is like having an armored dog.

I had saltwater tanks for about 25 years. Several of the corals I bred/cultured had a neurotoxin that could kill you. I was stung by a type of marine worm that ended up in a visit to the ER. At the time, we weren't sure it it was coral toxin or something else in my tanks. The anxiety from that episode was a reality check. It was time to take a break from the hobby and get rid of the pretty things that could kill me. I still have a scar on my arm from that worm.

My friends and neighbors always bring their kids over to visit my animals and take pictures. I encourage the kids to follow their passion for the sciences. Toys at my house include computerized telescopes, microscopes, bionic ear, and a full chemistry set. I have so much fun being a science geek.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have a BA in Anthropology and Eastern religions with minors in Classical studies and pre veterinary medicine. I also have a few publications in plant physiology. If I had taken all of my science credits in one location, I would also have a BS in Biology. Liberal Arts poster child anyone? I am dyslexic and had to work harder on certain subjects. I still can't spell very well.

I have been an volunteer with a stroke survivor group for the last 11 years and founded the local spinal cord injury support group. At one point, I coordinated over 22 health related support groups at a local physical rehab hospital. If you ever need help navigating the resources or services here, feel free to email me. I am still very involved in the medical community.

I have my own life and health insurance agency and work my schedule around my clients. Feel free to ask me questions. I solve problems. I don't just "sell". One of the best feelings I had was when I got an electric wheelchair donated for a client and rounded up my friends to build her a wheelchair ramp because she couldn't get it covered through her regular insurance. I have been able to combine my passion for social action into my work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I guess you could say that I am a science geek even though one of those tests says I am 100% pure nerd.

I enjoy aquaponic and hydroponic gardening. I started mentoring students involved in a community garden at a local university last year. Next year, we hope to add some bee hives to the garden . We will also be setting up an aquaponic system on campus once the new science building is finished.

I was recruited to the Olympic development camp for US Modern Pentathlon at the age of 13 (running, swimming, horseback riding, fencing, and shooting). The training schedule was brutal so I focused on women's epee fencing. I fenced in two World Cup tournaments. My body is a bit banged up, but I still like to keep up with my friends in the sport.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People first notice how outgoing I am and then they usually notice my zoo.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: My librarians know me by name. I have a stack of 4-6 books by my bed at all times. I like science fiction, mysteries, and crime fiction for pleasure reading. There are so many other genres that I read, but I just listed my favorites.

Food: Thai, Vietnamese, Mexican, Italian...anything except sushi.

Movies: action, drama, foreign, comedy

Music: Classical, Opera, Rock, Alternative, Electronic, Indie, some folk, some country-- no rap
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
internet access
green space and looking for reptiles and amphibians
clean sheets and my favorite pillow
Dr. Pepper
unlimited long distance calling
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
sustainable living and aquaponic food production
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am having dinner with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am poly and kinky!
You should message me if
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You would like to chat or hang out sometime. If you like gardening and don't have a place to get your hands in dirt, shoot me an email!