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31 Randolph, NJ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 22
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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My name is Paul. I'm 31, single, I don't have any kids, I live alone, I'm passionate about my job, which means I lead a pretty cool life. I like to read, write, play video games, and watch movies.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an electrical engineer by day...that means I make electronics smaller, faster, etc. But I'm not all numbers and math! In fact, a very big part of me is the adoration of art, and the art I love the most is writing. I tend to write dark fantasy, and some science fiction, but mostly I write stories that tell a tale and have a lesson.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm an excellent problem solver. I'm quite empathetic towards most people, but I'm also quite the sarcastic wit. I can and will make jokes that are aimed to offend, but you have to be able to see the humor in that and enjoy being outrageous!
The first things people usually notice about me
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You tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books- Good Omens, A Song of Ice and Fire, Fool, Death by Black Hole, The Ressurectionist
Movies- American Beauty, Fight Club, The Matrix, Avengers, Memento, and my favorite love story is Secretary
TV- Science/Discovery/History Channel/Food Network/BBC America (Doctor Who, Sherlock, Luther, Copper)
Music- Insert almost any indie rock, death metal, even some gangster rap right here. I'm hip.
Food- I will try anything once, and usually a second time! I can cook, and love to try new things.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My comforter is the most comfortable thing you've ever laid on.
I need my cell phone.
Gotta have chocolate and sweets...I have a sweet tooth!
I can't got a day without technology. Not only is it my job, it's my passion.
I can never have enough pens and booklets to write in.
I'd like to say there's an abundance of this, but I'd like to have more love in my life. It's very lonely to be an island in a sea of continents!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where can I have my next adventure? I'd like to get out more, see more, do more...and have someone to be with me at my side while I see it all.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Making an awesome dinner for myself, or playing games with my friends.
You should message me if
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The requirements are simple, flexible, and open for discussion, so let's discuss anything if you think there's a chance. Ideally? I want someone that's smart, sane, sexy, honest, and loyal. Passion is a must, whether it's about love, life, or anything, I want you to have interests and I want you to share them with me, because that's awesome.