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30 M Denville, NJ

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:21pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I come on strong and love like a freight train. Get on board. Remember that. I'm a writer, engineer, and a philosopher who looks deeply into the human condition and asks: Why? I'm looking for love in all the wrong places, I'm sure, but I can't think of anywhere else to look that hasn't been "done" already. I've been called an old soul, a master of the impossible, and an assassin of mistrust. I'm worth your time and trust. I'm more than can fit in a little box, so message me and take a freakin' chance.
What I’m doing with my life
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By day I'm an engineer. By night, I'm a writer that enjoys fantasy/horror. I'm not the "nice" guy writer. People die in my stories, horribly like the ones we love, because that's life. I part time as a bard, singing songs and playing guitar. Currently, I'm finishing writing a story about a man's fall from grace. It's one of the most emotional things I've ever written.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring you out, writing, and playing the villain without ever actually being one. I also excel at cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes. I had a male student come up to me one day and say "Dude, no homo, but have really beautiful eyes." He then walked away with his girlfriend that was waiting for him. So, I feel confident in saying that, but why don't you tell me? I've also gotten a lot of love for my smile as of late.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books- Good Omens, A Song of Ice and Fire, Fool, Death by Black Hole, The Ressurectionist
Movies- American Beauty, Fight Club, The Matrix, Avengers, Memento, and my favorite love story is Secretary
TV- Science/Discovery/History Channel/Food Network/BBC America (Doctor Who, Sherlock, Luther, Copper)
Music- Insert almost any indie rock, death metal, even some gangster rap right here. I'm hip.
Food- I will try anything once, and usually a second time! I can cook very well. I excel at Asian cuisine, and mastered fancy ramen. Ask me, I have pictures!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My computer is probably the most important tool in my life. I'm also fairly certain I need some great food, all the time. I love my TV. Don't judge, I like technology and food! I need coffee on a daily basis, and I'm certain if I didn't have a comfy bed, I'd never sleep. That's all I need. Not my cell phone. I can go days without being on it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What to have for lunch. It's a daily plague figuring out what's to eat nearby.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Saving the world, one character at a time with The Guildhall Podcast.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love bunnies and have a collection of bunny related curios. They're really punk rock, so ask and I'll show you!
You should message me if
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If you can communicate. At least semi-daily. If you're not a flake, I'm really tied of flaky people. If you'd like to flirt back and forth and know how to take a compliment. If you actually want to meet up and don't think this whole thing is a joke. If you like romance and don't have a boyfriend. I can't stress this enough!

If you're single, semi-sane, sexy attitude, and you have some time to date. Yes, those are the 4 necessities. It would be nice if you had something interesting to say, too!