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76 M Culver City, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 60–75
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 13
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I get tired of reading these profiles. They all seem the same.
I want to say I spend all my time laying around drinking beer and scratching my fanny. Of course, that isn't true.

My favorite things in life are peak experiences: learning to do the eskimo roll in an enclosed kayak in the open ocean. Scuba diving the first time. Hiking in the mountains. Falling in love. Body surfing on a perfect evening in Shaw's Cove, in Laguna Beach. Sailing alongside a gray whale off Dana Point as the sun is going down, with no other boats in sight. Falling in love. Did I mention falling in love?

I'm a writer--fiction, poetry, journalism. Just had my first mystery story accepted for publication. First one I ever sent out.

I am an artsy-fartsy creative type. Love kids, dogs, the outdoors, good friends, good movies, good books, and spare time. Funky lifestyle. (This ain't the Ritz.)

I think love is more about giving than it is about getting.
I didn't understand that when I was young and got married.
I thought I was going to be in love forever.

Two people have to commit to giving and to making the relationahip work, I believe, and do whatever they can to stoke the fire. Even then it is difficult. Relationships are delicate, but people are not.

I think compatibility factors are important. I made a list of 23. Here are the top seven:

1. Loves nature, loves to camp and hike and swim in mountain pools and in the ocean. Adores it. Revels in it. (I used to do this more, before I got runner's knees.)
2. Physical fitness. A core value. Works out, does exercise of all kinds, indoors and out. Bike, hike, mountain bike, etc. (Mostly at the gym now.)
3. Time: Able to slow down and savor life, not rush it. Able to be present and not distracted.
4. Loves the arts—literature, music, visual arts, movies, drama, etc. (A huge part of my life.)
5. Sees health and healthy food as a top priority. Chooses not to eat fast food or junk food.
6. Mental health. Will go a long way to make positive and healthy choices. Chooses healthy friends, etc. Has good boundaries.
7. Basically positive outlook. Most people are good. The world is a wonderful place where I can get what I want.

I like women who are slender. The closer the bone....
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Writing. Just got a story accepted for "Murder at the Beach," an anthology for Mystery Writers of America.
Working on different projects, including a novel and several shorter pieces. Looking for good movies to see and novels to read, working out, reading The New Yorker, taking my grandsons places, spending time with friends. Re-reading Joseph Conrad. Feeling young.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Having fun. Staying in shape. Looking young. A woman friend told me I speak both male and female languages. BTW, I can say hello in 21 different languages, including Russian and Bulgarian. It's a hobby.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Total strangers tell me their life stories.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Literary fiction: “Blood Meridian” by Cormac McCarthy, "Lord Jim" by Joseph Conrad, "Moby Dick" by Herman Melville, "Ulysses" by James Joyce, "As I Lay Dying" by William Faulkner, short fiction by Jorge Luis Borges.

Mystery/thrillers: the Travis MdGee novels by John D. MacDonald, "Gorky Park" by Martin Cruz Smith, "Presumed Innocent" by Scott Turow.

Hard to categorize: "The Secret History" by Donna Tartt.

Mainstream fiction: "Here On Earth" by Alice Hoffman.

MOVIES: "The Godfather," "L.A. Confidential," "One-Eyed Jacks," "Thelma And Louse," "Fargo," "Blade Runner," "No Country For Old Men."

MUSIC: Fiona Apple, Tori Amos, Bob Marley, Chrissie Hind, Bob Dylan, Johnny Cash, Joni Mitchell, Gipsy Kings, Wyclef Jean, and many more.

FOOD: mostly ethnic, including Thai and Mexican. Mostly healthy, more or less.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My grandkids. Writing. Exercise. The sea. The mountains. Good books. Friends. The arts. Love, in all its many forms: family, outdoors, friends, lovers, animals.

Wait, how many is that? Who's counting?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to get everything done.
How to make my novels better.
How to be both honest and positive in my relationships.
How to exercise enough to get back my six-pack abs.
How to tell a really good joke.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Curled up with a good book. Or watching a movie. Or out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I have some regrets in life. Wish I could go back and do a couple things over.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You love life, don't care too much about money, have a positive outlook, are slender and in good shape, like to go everywhere and do everything, have a sense of humor. If you think Obama is not progressive enough and Dr. Phil is a horse's ass.