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37 Toronto, Ontario, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 32–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 7
4' 11" (1.50m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Post grad
Might want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Italian (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
• I don't reply to messages from people who haven't posted pictures. I've got pictures up, and fair is fair.

Okay, now that's out of the way:
• Just updated my skills with a PR course, and am looking for a real grown-up job. Teaching ESL in the meantime.
• Yes, I'm really that short. ;P
• I speak Italian because my mom's parents never learned English. I've also begun studying German, in a half-assed kinda way.
• I have a Master's degree in Communication and Social Justice.
• I wrote my thesis on Canadian independent music as political action. This led directly to me kinda-sorta managing an indie music collective for a while. It also set me on the path towards some very significant events and relationships.
• I write. Well. Very well. I'm waiting to start an 8-month mentorship through ARC magazine. The last session kind of went sideways, so it's been pushed back. But I'm excited!
• I can't decide if Berlin or Warsaw is my favourite city in the world.
• There's a particular CD I listen to when I'm scared or lonely or sad and it makes me feel better. Or worse, depending on what's happened. Either way, it's that CD.
• My nose has been pierced since I was 21 or so. More recently, I got a tattoo right between my shoulder blades. I love it.
• I adore dogs. The bigger, the better. I'm perfectly happy to play with a bull mastiff, but chihuahuas terrify me.
• I've learned to love cats, too. In fact, I have one - a neurotic little ginger-and-white male named Sid (Vicious).
• Moxy Fruvous still ranks high on my list of favourite bands. I will fight with you about this.
• I love going for walks. Especially when there's a Cold Stone Creamery at the end.
• I think M*A*S*H, Buffy the Vampire Slayer and The X-Files were absolutely incredible pieces of pop culture.
• I may be a little bit in love with Johnny Lee Miller as Sherlock Holmes. And Benedict Cumberbatch.
• Men in eyeliner are hot beyond belief.
• Ruby Rose might be the most attractive person I've ever seen, of either gender.
• I'm not interested in helping attached men cheat on their significant others. If that's what you take from my 'most private thing I'm willing to admit', then read it again. Use a dictionary if you need to. Open relationship - all good. Cheating - sod off. Please. =)
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to make it better. ;)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Bad jokes.
Sociopolitical discussion.
Sarcastic commentary.
Enjoying stand up comedy.
Recommending good music.
Using my library card.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Physically, my height or my eyes (I was once told not to wear eyeliner because it makes me look like a creepy doll.)

Not-physically, my sense of humour or my left-wingnut politics.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favourite Books: Half of a Yellow Sun, Stone Mattress, All My Puny Sorrows, Swann, Half-Blood Blues, The Cellist of Sarajevo, Anna Karenina, Beauty Tips from Moose Jaw, A Day in the Life of Ivan Denisovich, Fuhrer-Ex, The Brothers Karamazov, Green Grass Running Water, Never Cry Wolf, The Outport People, Loving Frank, The Reader, Homecoming, The Hitch-hiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Slaughterhouse-Five, Memoirs of a Geisha, Anne Frank: The Diary of a Young Girl, Jane Eyre, The Princess Bride, Ghosted, Down To This: Squalor and Splendor in a Big City Shanty Town, The Complete Persepolis, A Complicated Kindness, On The Road, Howl, The Simpsons and Philosophy, Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Philosophy, Hitching Rides with Buddah, Happiness TM, The Picture of Dorian Grey, The Motorcycle Diaries.

Favourite Movies: Good-bye Lenin, Get Him to the Greek, My Own Private Idaho, Canadian Bacon, Me and Johnny, Budrus, Aisheen, Johnny Stechino, The Pianist, The Lost Boys, Der Baader-Meinhof Komplex, Sixteen to Life, The Darjeeling Limited, The Untouchables, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Invictus, The Motorcycle Diaries, 1969, La Vita e Bella, What's Eating Gilbert Grape?, Kick-Ass, The Future is Unwritten.

Favourite TV Shows: The Big Bang Theory, In Treatment, House, Criminal Minds, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Californication, The Golden Girls, The X-Files, M*A*S*H, The West Wing, Elementary, Sons of Anarchy, Sleepy Hollow, House of Cards.

Favourite Music: Neil Leyton, The Pariahs, Red Orkestra, Aceface, The Clash, The Sex Pistols, Joel Plaskett, Danny Michel, Blue Rodeo, Sloan, Ani DiFranco, Patsy Cline, The Everley Brothers, Moxy Fruvous, Billy Joel, Thrush Hermit, The Reply, The Smiths, D.Rangers, Alun Piggins, Ramin Karimloo, Leonard Cohen, Rufus Wainwright.

Favourite Food: anything Indian, all fruit, raw veggies, gnocchi, cheesecake and falafal.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good music.
Good books.
My family and friends.
My sense of humour.
An open mind.
A healthy disrespect for convention.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about what comes next. And why some people feel the need to tell me I'm short. Do they think it's escaped my notice for the past three decades? ;)

I also spend some of my time wondering why my cat attacks walls.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On a typical Friday night I'm with friends (watching a movie, seeing a play, having dinner, listening to music, hanging out) or flaked out on my couch.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't think that monogamy is the only choice out there. I'm not against it, I just believe other options have an equal chance of working.
You should message me if
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You're up for a burlesque show. Or just coffee. Either way. =)