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52 Calabasas, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:16pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Has kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So, here we are in some twenty-first century version of Roxbury/Limelight/Friday's/Starbuck's/or (gasp!) Bennigans, hoping to meet someone before last call. OK, this is LA so perhaps we are checking each other out during downward dog or on the Santa Monica steps...or maybe Whole Foods?

We probably know more about each other's sex lives than anyone should likely know before a first date. Hopefully, your photos are current!

If we were to meet by chance, what would you notice about me? I am tall, fit (somewhat compulsive about yoga and exercise classes!) I'm also a food and health writer, restaurant reviewer, and true foodie. I am all about balance. In conversation, you'd hopefully find me engaging, clever, well-read, intelligent, and cultured. I love to travel, try new restaurants. Wine tasting, driving along PCH, an exhibit at Getty Center or LACMA. Short films, documentaries, foreign films, classics, a thought-provoking film. Reading the New York Times with you over Peet's on a Sunday am.

My shortcomings? I sometimes stay up all night writing or engrossed in a book I can't put down. I probably buy too many books on Amazon. I can never remember any of my passwords! And I don't know how to change my oil, change a flat, or drive a stick but I am willing to learn!

You are skilled/talented at flirting and banter. Smart is sexy. You know your way around a museum or restaurant menu. You are an idea guy who is always looking for the next step in whatever you do. You would prefer to get out there than watch reality TV , though there's nothing wrong with cuddling on the couch. You are fit and take care of yourself without being an obsessive raw foodist who carries goji berries in your pocket and harps on the benefits of, I don't know, green smoothies. You are stylish and appreciate that quality in a woman. You are a gentleman.

Perhaps our paths will cross. When it comes to love and romance, my glass is overflowing with champagne. My optimism may be somewhat tempered by slight doubt that one in five meet the love of his/her life online but we can always say we met at a screening or The Hungry Cat.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a contributing writer for three magazines.I am the food and health editor for a regional magazine so I know all the best restaurants! I also write about real estate. I am a regular contributor to Huffington Post Divorce. In my "down time," I practice yoga, take exercise classes, enjoy films and cultural events, read, and yes, write some more. I am the mother of two incredible, bright daughters, 14 and 18. I enjoy travel, near and far. I like shopping at the farmers market to prepare a great dinner. I enjoy leisurely afternoons at the Getty or LACMA or driving around in search of great LA architecture, especially midcentury.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
writing and exchanging witty repartee, yoga.barre, and picking the movie. I can whip up a pretty decadent chocolate mousse!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My legs and my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books? Too many to list but I'd probably include "Catcher in the Rye," "Goodbye Columbus," "The Great Gatsby," "Last Tycoon," "French Lieutenant's Woman," "Are You There God, It's Me Margaret," "The Velveteen Rabbit," "1984." "Crime and Punishment."

Movies? "Casablanca," "Citizen Kane," "Network", "Unmarried Woman," "Saturday Night Fever," Amelie," "The Godfather," "Singing in the Rain," "The Graduate." "Love Actually," "Bridget Jones Diary." Too many to list...

Shows? Seinfeld, Sex and the City, Entourage, Mad Men, Occasionally Food Network or Househunters International. HBO documentaries. Frontline.

Music? Classic Rock. Stones. Yes. Police. Aerosmith. AC/DC. Doobie Bros., Eagles, Cars, Almost anything from 70s and 80s. Jazz. Raised on Sinatra. Madonna, Steely Dan, anything but country.

Food? Sushi. Chicken Under Brick. the Squash Blossom and Burrata Pizza at Mozza, brocolli rabe with lots of garlic, a good filet, well done steak fries, the grilled vegetable salad at The Ivy.
My Caesar Salad. Creme Brulee or artisanal ice cream with two spoons. Grapefruit.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Morning Peet's or Starbuck's
My daughters
Sunday NY Times
My laptop and a WiFi connection
Vinyasa Flow Yoga and Barre classes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how I can use what I just observed or experienced in my writing; what the future holds for my daughters; what will happen when we finally meet!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Quiet dinner in or maybe reviewing a restaurant or catching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I donated a kidney to a stranger in Virginia as part of a paired exchange, enabling my dad to receive a matching kidney. The experience has been quite awe-inspiring and humbling.
You should message me if
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you have a good sense of humor, are smart, engaging, and confident!